Free thinking, independent, trans woman (she/her) looking for a Gentle/Soft Dom/Domme to submit to. I'm in the North of England/North West. I'll admit I'm not an easy sub to take on but I do believe the rewards will be more than worthwhile. I consider myself innovative and creative with a positive approach to trying new kinks, tasks and play.

My love is for restraint and my kink originated in self bondage. However, I have grown to love other aspects of kink, including being controlled, free use, vaginal, oral and anal play, all manor of toy play, orgasm control, edging and denial, chastity, posture training, leashing and limited voyeurism/exhibitionism. My favourite currently is cage play. I have a crate/cage and am becoming very creative with how I use it. Took a while but I've worked out to hand over remote access to a Dom/Domme so that you can control the lock for it from wherever you are. Add in other toys, positions and devices and it can be very productive in a kink relationship.

My kink doesnt revolve around pain and it's not something I'd seek out. I prefer restraint and control or degradation over it. However, it is a soft limit and I would discuss with you how it could be fitted into our dynamic. So for example, spanking could be used as a more severe punishment where other methods fail. Also, I do have specific health concerns that I need to consider which may impact what I'm able to do. Sometimes in very difficult ways. Again, I'll discuss these with potential doms/dommes. Also, I prefer Mister/Mistress/Sir/Madame etc over Daddy/DD/lg dynamics.

On the vanilla side, I'm politically minded (left leaning), I like sport but I'm not a stereotypical sports fan, I'm a gamer and a feminist. As I said, I'm complicated. ;) I spend a lot of time on social media and watching YouTube etc.

I'm more pleasant than this makes out and I think you would enjoy getting to know me. I'm looking for somebody strong minded, of a similar age, give or take ten years either side, somebody who is respectful of who I am and my needs. However, I dont have a specific type so don't be afraid to get in touch. :)

I am still new to submission but think I'm getting a good idea of what it will take to submit. I'm thinking I would like to play at first, then progress to a full time submission (ie. Like 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, sort of thing, or similar), then maybe progressing to some form of a TPE 24/7 dynamic.

I would be willing to share pics and vids for the right person and have done previously. Just so you know though, I am post op and this was less than a year ago, so my vagina is brand new. ;)

So a little to be going on with. If this interests anybody, please dm me. Would love to hear more about you and what your needs might be. Don't be afraid to reach out. If you're wanting me to subscribe to your OF or similar though, please don't waste my time or yours.

OK. Let's see if this works. Speak to you soon! :)