I kind of want to make this as thorough as possible as to minimise time wasters so hopefully I made this long enough to be to the point but at least keep it entertaining if nothing else, so if you do make it to the bottom of this and I've not put you off by one of my many kinks you should definitely give me a msg, ideally you should be from the UK or at the very least Europe, I'm not really fussed where your from so if you still like everything I mentioned still worth sending a message but just know I do have an image in my mind of eventually meeting up and putting this into practise if things go well.

People have told me that you never see two switches together but I totally disagree, it takes an equal amount of work from both parties and strict obedience to the 3 rule trifecta; 1.Trust!, 2.Honesty! and 3.Safety! but it can work, lose one of those 3 things and the whole dynamic shuts down, so its important to me that i know you truly and deeply that we can eventually love and trust each other enough to even possibly tiptoe over each others comfort zones to discover new and wonderful experiences together.

What do i look like?, I'm 5'10, Average build about 75kg or about 12 stone, Brown Eyes, Long Brown hair that is usually tied back in some form of a man bun, its not a style its just bad genetics, haha they did not do me any favours on the hairline front but it runs in the family so beggars cant be choosers, doesnt look awful yet though, other then that I've been told I'm quite Handsome looking, Someone even once told me i look like a gay Orlando Bloom from Pirates of the Caribbean, compliment? or insult? take that as you will. I try not to take myself to seriously and I certainly like to have a laugh. I also am happy sending photos but lets wait till we can somewhat begin to understand each other. This doesn't need to be rushed.

If you'd like a few specifics of what I like;

• I got very into Bondage during a ex relationship more specifically Rope play and restraints (Shibaru/ Kinbaku). Mostly doing the roping and restraining but I also like being tied up and whipped within reason. Plus when its done right it looks sexy as fuck.
• I'm a very respectful person deep down and while the surface me can seem strict or mean even as a Dom, degradation and constant belittlement isn't really my thing, I'm happy to tease to the edge and be very strict and mean but all in good taste through passion and teasing just not manipulation and degradation.
• I love a moderate amount of pain, whether it be simple scratch's with your nails, or even more moderate stuff like biting and spanking all the way up to the extremes of whips and canes as long as it doesn't leave lasting damage, but a red raw arse to show you've been bad girl is totally fine. That includes me too no reason why you get all that fun.
• I also have a Foot Fetish which surprisingly is a deal breaker for a lot of women but I'm too far gone to give that up now haha, so if you cant handle getting a foot massages every night before bed, or having your toes sucked twice a week minimum, well then then your utterly mad and that's simply your loss haha xD, so a nice set of feet and legs will go a very long way believe me.
• I also have a newfound love of light-weight fetish involving light weights on top of me whether it be a heavy weighted blanket... A hug where i take all your weight off your feet bonus points if you can wrap them legs round my waist and squeeze tight, or we simply are laying down and your laying on my stomach while we spoon and cuddle or even more dominant things like standing on my back and walking up and down my body feels amazing, so my ideal body type would be petite women that i can pick up and potentially throw about if she likes it.

Id like someone who'd love to be tied up and teased to the edge of orgasm then denied as I watch your eyes roll to the back of your head, if your capable of squirting that's more bonus points but someone that also has the capability to possibly turn the tables and try having their way with me in equal pleasure, or at least willing to try mix it up a bit, have some depth please. I would love to talk more to find out your possible likes and limits

My No Go's; Incest, piss, scat, blood, bestiality, rape or generally anything considered seriously taboo. 

we can discuss more in DMs, just to make it extra saucy and fun to prove you made it too the bottom and read it all, what are the 3 main rules of the Trifecta and what will be happening every night before bed?, bonus points if you tell me what will happen at least twice a week also? :')