Hello. Well, I feel a bit out if place here looking at these ads. I'm not necessarily "in the lifestyle" but am very versed in power dynamics and have experience with that..mostly as a soft Dom. For me, it is more about the relationship. The kinks come after and are not anywhere near as important to me. I want something nice with a nice person that I can trust. Trust takes time but it is important. I am open and transparent and take this seriously. I am unhappily married and need a companion. I'm not looking for an empty sexual thing. I will give you my effort and attention if we connect. I like power dynamics in a relationship and it brings closeness which I like..with the right person. That is what it is about. It is something earned through trust. So often there is temptation to just enter into the dynamic with wreckless abandon and I get it is tempting but I'm not doing that. I want to know you first. Communication style is important. We should both want to really spend time together. Maybe this isn't sounding like a typical BDSM ad...but these things are more important to me. I have various kinks and we can discuss that. Physically, I am 5'9" and 155 lbs. Looking for an attractive girl in twenties or thirties that knows what she wants and wants something similar. Look forward to chatting.
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