me: passionate, professional, principled. i'm a dominant with lots of experience, confidence, and interest not only in kink but why it's so satisfying and how to take it higher. i put a lot of value on the ways that we communicate, with our words and with our actions. i want a partner on my wavelength to build great chemistry and occasionally satisfy each other's deep desires.

XXL-tall, white, 420 friendly, nerdy, artsy. living alone in my own home and ideally hosting. rough, degrading, horny, demanding. snipped and clean and well-groomed too. i don't want to talk about local sports teams or what was on TV last night, but there's a lot of excitement you can get out of me even when it comes to small talk, about books and art and nature and space, history, philosophy, psychology, and BDSM itself.

and i'd really prefer the friends alongside the benefits. treating you well as a person vs using you roughly as a slut is an important contrast to the experience. i want to fuck hard and snuggle soft and force our favorite things onto each other, just without the expectations and entanglements.

you: local, open-minded, cute, and submissive. you're someone who puts a lot of thought into who you are and what the world expects of you. what you stand for and who you kneel for. the more intelligent and eloquent you are, the more that we can stimulate one another. i tend to mesh best with 22 and experienced, but i'm open to serious interest from anyone, including older women. (open) wives and girlfriends welcome - i'm willing to consider cuck-adjacent arrangements.

it would be great if you were into: cnc, choking spanking slapping tossing around, degradation, bondage, cock worship, anal and/or breeding. i have lots more, but i generally like to hit as many of these as i can when i'm in the mood (often). misogyny and hypno fetishists to the front of the line. we can work around whatever your limits might be, although i hope this can be an exploration and experience of new and intimidating ideas.

you deserve a Dominant who demands your worship and earns it from you, too.

again, please be local to baltimore/DC! higher effort intro = higher chance of response, thank you for reading either way (: