Greetings and salutations reader

I am Master Arthpen and I am seeking a fine lady to have as my own, to guide , train , care for and enjoy.

So I imagine your first question would be "who the hell is this guy?"

An excellent question reader , I have been in the scene for almost 9 years now and have learned a great deal in that time.

I must admit I am quite the nerd when it comes to BDSM , I love to learn about new kinks new fetishes and how people tick so I hoover up as much information as I can and love to do so.

As a Dominant I have over the years tried my hand at a great deal of kinks and so to list my likes would take more space than the internet can hold, but this shouldn’t affect things much as I primarily derive my pleasure from pure control and the effect it has upon those under me.

LIKES

All are listed in alphabetical order so not to seem priority to anything.

Anal Begging Biting Blindfolds Bondage Clothespins Clothing control Collars (Public and Private) Crawling Deep Throating Dildos or Other Penetrating Objects DP Food Control Forced Nudity Gags Gang-bang Humiliation Ice Kneeling Leashes Limited Hidden Public Orgasm Control/Denial Pain Plugs

EXPECTATIONS

Communication :

Speaks for itself. Too many people just run away while being scared of something. If this is your kind of behaviour, think about changing it.

I want a strong bond over time, if you're a liar or not serious, don't waste both of our time

Honesty :

At the very top of the list honesty is crucial with me , if I cannot trust that you will be open with me about how you feel or about aspects of your life then I cannot trust you to be safe with any tasks or play we might do , so this is a deal breaker.

Enthusiasm:

Sounds silly I know but from experience I have found this surprisingly lacking in a lot of folks , just because you are mine does not mean you can just kick back and only do exactly as instructed , if I wanted a robot id attach alexa to a furbie , I want you to truly want to learn , to please , to expand your knowledge and skills and to have the same passion for kink as I do.

Intelligence:

I’m not expecting Einstein of for you to develop cold fusion while suspended upside down with nipple clamps on but I do want you to think about how you perform tasks and rituals , I’m only human (mostly) and so I will make mistakes , instead of following blindly knowing that you will understand the spirit of the task and adjust as needed or that you would hold back on something to avoid what you know I wouldn’t want is perfect in my eyes.

Reasonable contact and expectations of contact:

We all have normal lives to live sadly and as such we can't be sat around all day enjoying our debauchery , real life gets in the way. As such I fully accept that communication will not be a perfectly clockwork affair but I do expect to hear from you when you are able, likewise you can expect the same from myself.

For you to be submissive:

I may be going over covered ground here but with so many recent experiences I feel it needs to be spelt out , a submissive submits , in this case they will submit to me , this doesn’t mean manipulation obviscation omission or outright defiance instead. Im not saying there will be no banter in fact I quite enjoy it every now and then but at the end of the day your signing up to be controlled by me so if you intend on trying to manipulate me in any fashion to get what you want then your not for me.

What you can expect from me

Communication :

Speaks for itself. Too many people just run away while being scared of something. If this is your kind of behaviour, think about changing it.

I want a strong bond over time, if you're a coward or not serious, don't waste both of our time

That's why it written twice.

Honesty:

Just like I expect from you , you can expect from me , I will be honest and open with you about my thoughts and feelings so you can trust I will not hold back from you.

Care for your wellbeing:

It's about emphasis upon the symbiosis of dynamics , it's not simply a one way street where you do everything I want and get nothing back , by accepting your gift of submission I also accept the responsibility that comes with it , your wellbeing both physically and mentally will become my duty and I will ensure to the best of my abilities that you not only have that support but feel it to.

FAQ

“I have a limit of pictures/videos is that ok?”

While I fully respect and understand not going gynological in the first 5 minutes I do want to be able to see you and the things I have you do in time, I also do need to know you are who you say you are. So I am afraid if you will never do pictures/videos then I cannot work with you.

“Do you accept male subs?”

Yes, but you'll have to be a very special sissy to be part of it. Why not trying out your luck ?

“Do you accept larger girls?”

Like many have said before and many will say after in vain , Looks are the last thing on my list , attitude is the most sexy thing you can possibly have so quit worrying and message me.

“I have a busy work/life schedule is that ok?”

Like I've said we all have lives , we can only try to work around them and Im game if you are.

How to apply

Well simply put throw me a PM , but do make it more than a few words, heres some tips: Your name or at least the name you wish to go by. Brief description of who you are. Tell me why your interested in me. Tell me what should I pick you.

Be creative

So I am almost certain I will have mispelt or grammatically bungled huge sections of this and forgotten probably some key bit of information you want to know but that’s half the fun right?

I hope to hear from you soon, reader.