Summary: I am looking for a dominant mind between 20 and 50 years old for a long term dynamic, ideally from Europe or a similar time zone. I don’t care too much about looks and have a decent amount of experience. I am looking to start online only, let's talk about meeting irl if and when we vibe. Both women and men are welcome to apply, do read the entire post, though.

Who am I as a person?

To kick things off: You can call me Lacram, I am 28 years old and from Germany. I work a 9 to 5 office job 5 days a week and live alone. I wouldn’t call myself heavily involved in politics but definitely lean left.

I live in a big city and like to spend time with friends in cafés, pubs and outside - despite my favorite season being winter! I’m into cycling ever since buying a new bike last year and want to expand on that in the future. Riding through the landscapes is just perfect to clear the mind after a stressful week. My other hobbies include watching soccer, playing video games, watching tv shows or reading/music.

I’m often said to be pretty calm and levelheaded and I love to discuss and argue in a constructive manner. So sign me up for your deep talks!

While I am not quite an introvert, my social battery tends to drain in company of multiple people. To charge up again I typically need a couple of hours of alone time to game or watch something or sleep.

Last but not least: I am about 190 cm tall, slim but not skinny, have short black hair and brown eyes. I do have a normal amount of body hair on my arms and legs, in case that matters.

I am open to exchanging pictures once we’ve gotten to know each other but it’s not a requirement. I will never send a nsfw picture with my face in it, everything else I am open to once I am comfortable with you.

Who am I as a sub?

I have been in multiple long time D/s dynamics over time, all online. Moreover i am involved in a small but really nice online kink community ever since my first dynamic in 2015. While i am not the most experienced sub i do know my way around. In one of the dynamics we’d switch regularly, so I also know the Dom side of things. Don’t worry, I am not looking to switch again, I feel home being submissive.

At first I started out as what you’d call a brat pushing to be put in place. Nowadays I’d much rather let go and embrace it, unless you want to push my brat buttons. In any case, expect lengthy and detailed reports from me.

Quite a few of my kinks probably fall under the humiliation category but let me give you a non-exhaustive list in no particular order.

Likes:

• Edging
• Tease and denial
• Orgasm control & ruined orgasms
• Anal
• Clothing control
• Aftercare
• Cum play
• Body writing
• Rules/Tasks
• Being cared for

What I am interested in/want to explore more of (not a must):

• Hypnosis
• Mild Feminization
• Chastity (I have a cage)
• Post orgasm torture
• Micromanagement
• CNC
• TPE
• Reports

Limits:

• Blood, Scat
• Social ruin
• Full on public play (hidden public is fine)
• Family/Friends
• Extreme pain

I am happy to talk about my kinks in detail and why they work or don't work for me in the case of dislikes or limits. Feel free to name kinks you’d like to explore as I am open-minded and good about vocalising my thoughts!

If you’d like I can you provide you with a list of the toys I own. But it kinda goes like this: Plugs, cages, dildos, masturbators, bondage stuff, gags, lovense toys, prostate massagers and so on.

What am i looking for in women?

You shouldn’t be just my play partner. If I am to submit to someone long-term there needs to be a real connection. My partner should be able to hold a normal conversation, watch movies with me and hangout. Gaming holds a special place in my heart! And I’d love to hear about how your days go and how you’re feeling.

I am also a sucker for being cared for. Call me a good boy, protect me and make sure I am well - aftercare is very important to me. As long as I am behaving, that is. In any case, I’d definitely tease you in playful ways.

I’d love to have regular play sessions but am also looking for casual flirting, rules, habits, tasks and so on. We should be talking to each other almost daily, obviously with room for exceptions.

You should be open to voice chats eventually.

What am i looking for in men?

Most of what i have written above still applies. However, do know that i am straight. Meaning that we will never meet and i probably won't be able to build the same kind of emotional bond as with women.

If you feel like we'd be a good match anyway, please be open for some mild feminization (underwear mostly) and please do reach out!

How to reach me

Shoot me a message either through chat or DMs. Please make it a detailed response including at least the following information:

1. Age sex
2. What does your life look like currently?
3. What’s important to you as a dominant?