Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read my message.
I am, as the title says, a 23 year old submissive little currently looking for a Daddy Dom. Some basic information that I feel is important to know before you proceed with my post: - I am currently in Paris for at least half a year and would be interested in meeting someone in the same city. - I am a student but I’ll be finishing my degree at the end of the summer. - I am bilingual in English and French. If I were to find someone who speaks English natively, that would be perfect, because I am more comfortable engaging in dirty talk/flirting in English, but I’m not opposed to French because I understand that geographically speaking, I can’t ask for more.
More specifically, who am I? - I am very passionate about books and literature. I adore French classics and contemporary English (I use English in reference to the language) books. My favourite genres are classics, romantasy and young adult. We don’t need to share interests in the same genres, but I would find it difficult to truly relate to someone who doesn’t read. - I enjoy video games, mostly solo games. My favourite games are Zelda, RDR, Animal Crossing and the Sims. - Music-wise, my favourite genre is rock. I’ve been getting into metalcore and metal recently. I also like pop. - I thoroughly enjoy coding and anything related to digital work. This is a bit random. but it’s related to my studies and, just like literature, it’s become an activity that I enjoy. - I am a very organised person (a bit too much, maybe). I enjoy order and being respectful of other people’s times. If you’re often late and poorly manage your time and organisation, we’re probably going to be incompatible because I need stability and organisation in my life. - I like engaging in various activities revolving around arts and crafts. I can’t draw for the life of me, but I enjoy painting decorations, for example, diamond painting, diy, etc. It’s very cathartic and soothing. - I love going outside and enjoying the city that I’m in. Not a fan of hikes though, haha. - I’m also someone who is quite easily stressed and anxious, and I’m not the most social person out there. I don’t do big events and I don’t really enjoy going out. I also don’t drink, so if you wish to have a drink occasionally, I will happily bring forth my glass of ice tea. - I’m a chatterbox, so you have to be okay with lots of talking. I enjoy sharing my day and hearing about yours too. - I would say I’m also ambitious and have lots of drive and motivation to make things happen for myself.
Physical appearance: I’m 1m60, thin, blonde with blue eyes. I also wear glasses and have long, straight hair.
Here are some of my interests and/or kinks: - Mental/verbal degradation: it has to be my number one kink. I love being treated like I’m dumb and I enjoy some insults. The specifics will be talked about later. - Humiliation: I thoroughly enjoy being humiliated and embarrassed. For example, I enjoy being humiliated for how horny/desperate I am. - Pain: I find pain to be very cathartic, but my tolerance is quite low. It’s something I would be interested in working on and developing. More specifically, I love spanking, slapping and being slapped on other places on my body too. - DDLG: as this is quite a personal kink to me, I would prefer giving more details in private. I can say though that my little side includes sexual and non-sexual activities. I don’t have a specific age or age range and I don’t engage in activities related to younger ages like baby talk, diapers, etc. I will say that I LOVE plushies, baths and cute pyjamas. - Submission: I enjoy being submissive, being dominated by someone and feeling small and stupid, basically. The D/s dynamic is a place where I can just let go and feel liberated, in a way. I want to serve and pleasure my Daddy and making him happy and satisfied is very important to me. - Brat: I have a little bratty side, sometimes more naughty than bratty, but it’s not a dominant aspect of my personality. - Orgasm control/edging: I enjoy letting my Dom take control and choose what he wants when he wants. - Lingerie/exhibitionism: I love wearing and buying lingerie. It makes me feel sexy and confident. I also love showing off my lingerie and myself in various states of undress engaging in various sorts of activities.
Kinks I haven’t tried but am open to/interested in engaging in: - Anal - Bondage - Sensation play - Rules: I have done this before, but on a low level. - Punishments: same as rules. - CNC: definitely something to talk about a lot later. - Watersports: open, but would need to discuss the specifics.
My hard limits: - Scat - Deliberately drawing blood - Non-monogamy - Blackmail - Lactation - Fisting
Here’s a description of what I am interested in: - A Daddy Dom: the Daddy Dom dynamic is definitely what would correspond to my profile the most. I love the caretaker aspect of it and I enjoy the addition of being stern, but also loving and sweet. - Communication: this is THE most important thing. I enjoy paying attention to my partner and receiving attention. I need regular communication. Ideally, I would like to meet in person, but in the meanwhile, and even after, I am open to texting, phone calls and video calls. - I’m looking for someone 30 years old. If you’re younger, I will ignore you, so please don’t bother sending a message. - I would like to find someone that I can enjoy spending time with in and outside of kink. For me, the dynamic is always present in the relationship, for it is something that is sexual and non-sexual.
Physically, what I’m attracted to: - Light facial hair is okay (I’m sorry, I’m not a fan of long beards and the like). - I have to admit that muscles aren’t necessarily my thing. It’s not a hard no, but I have a soft spot for dad bods. I’m honestly open to all body types.
Your message: As much information as you’re willing to share about who you are, your appearance and what you’re looking for. Photos are appreciated but not obligatory. Short messages will be ignored so please don’t bother sending.
Dealbreakers: - Not pro-choice - Have values that go against developing women’s rights/LGBTQ rights - Anti-vaccine - Smokers
Thank you for reading! I look forwards to chatting!
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