hello, I am on her looking for someone i can eventually be in a serious ltr. I am a switch, but I don't need to switch. 90% of my experiences when I have a girlfriend or fwb I stay in one role. I am not currently looking for fwb. I am single and monogamous.

I am adhd, and I like to work. so I spend most of my time doing diy projects. currently, I am learning leather working. I have a 3d printer, and i am planning to learn how to use that and my leather working skills to make more elaborate stuff. if I am not working on a project. I am pretty nerdy, I like to find a good story. I mostly end up reading fiction, but I definitely enjoy other types of books, anime, and movies. I love stories with good charter development or world building.

my long-term plans are to have a family and open my own business. right now, i am saving up for a house and hoping to have kids in the next 5 years. I definitely don't want kids until I am 100% ready. Ideally, I am hoping to find a wife who wants to stay home or work part-time. we build a 24/7 power dynamic into our relationship. this isn't a deal-breaker for me, I just work so much right now that what I find the most meaningful is little stuff that takes things off my plate.

Physically i am 5'11, with brown hair and brown eyes. I usally have a 5 clock shadow and 150 to 160 lbs. O workout about 2 to 5 times a week. Depending on how hard my day at work is. Here is a pic https://imgur.com/a/LphQo5j

when it comes to kinky stuff. I am into the same things as a dom or a sub. my biggest turn-ons are control and degradation. I have been going to events and been part of fetish communities for 10 years, all over the country. I have the most experience with bondage, service sub, and pain play. I prioritize consent, communication, and trust above everything. I find fetish play very interesting and have done a lot of research and have had a lot of experience. I am always happy to give advice and help newbies. experience is pretty meaningless after you get to the point you know how to do it safely. the best experience I have had as a dom and as a sub, have been with partner that had 0 experience before meeting me.

thanks for reading. If you're interested in being friends or chatting to see if we would be a good fit, send me a message.😁