hello, I am on her looking for someone i can eventually be in a serious ltr. I am a switch, but I don't need to switch. 90% of my experiences when I have a girlfriend or fwb I stay in one role. I am not currently looking for fwb. I am single and monogamous.

I am adhd, and I like to work. so I spend most of my time doing diy projects. currently, I am learning leather working. I have a 3d printer, and i am planning to learn how to use that and my leather working skills to make more elaborate stuff. if I am not working on a project. I am pretty nerdy, I like to find a good story. I mostly end up reading fiction, but I definitely enjoy other types of books, anime, and movies. I love stories with good charter development or world building. I do love to activities outside, when i have time. I go to concerts, comedy shows, indoor rock climbing, wake surfing and try new restaurants. In the past when I had the ability to I used to go surfing everyday. I was really into cycling, hiking, down hill long bording, yoga, and mountain biking. Being in the midwest and living on the road makes it impossible or difficult to try and keep doing any of those.

my long-term plans are to have a family and open my own business. right now, i am saving up for a house and hoping to have kids in the next 5 years. I definitely don't want kids until I am 100% ready. Ideally, I am hoping to find a wife who wants to stay home or work part-time. we build a 24/7 power dynamic into our relationship. this isn't a deal-breaker for me, I just work so much right now that what I find the most meaningful is little stuff that takes things off my plate. for example, making dinner or doing some light cleaning.

when it comes to kinky stuff. I am into the same things as a dom or a sub. my biggest turn-ons are control and degradation. I have been going to events and been part of fetish communities for 10 years, all over the country. I have the most experience with bondage, service sub, and pain play. I prioritize consent, communication, and trust above everything. I find fetish play very interesting and have done a lot of research and have had a lot of experience. I am always happy to give advice and help newbies. experience is pretty meaningless after you get to the point you know how to do it safely. the best experience I have had as a dom and as a sub, have been with partner that had 0 experience before meeting me.

Physically involved am 5'11. I have brown hair and brown eyes. Usally have a 5 clock shadow. I work out regularly and have a Physically demanding job. I normally weight between 150 and 160 lbs. I have a swimmers body. Here is a pic https://imgur.com/a/LphQo5j

thanks for reading. If you're interested in being friends or chatting to see if we would be a good fit, send me a message.😁