I'm a 36 yo male sub based in London looking to meet up with someone IRL. I’m 180ish cm tall and just over 70kg, so a skinny/slim build, fair skinned, clean shaven, and DDF. I am primarily looking for a femdom partner and one who I can connect with beyond kink; I’m not really interested in a one-and-done type thing, I’d like to get to know someone, do things together, and for kink to be just one part of that. I’m in SW London so am looking for someone who lives reasonably close by. Ideally you are also mid-to-late 20s or older and have some prior experience with kink.
Hobbies-wise, I'm into a few outdoorsy activities like cycling and long walks. I read a lot of non-fiction, mostly history and politics, but also Steinbeck amongst other modern American authors. I'm a decent cook though would like someone to help me stop my soufflés from wilting. I also tend to go to gigs regularly; see some of my other posts for a sense of music taste.
On the kinky side, I’m a conscientious and obedient sub who revels in the service aspect of submission and have a fair bit of experience in this sort of role. I tend to prefer a more gentle domme but am comfortable with someone who has sadistic tendencies too. I would describe myself as a rope bunny and really enjoy being bound and placed into a few predicaments. I'm really into face sitting/oral and am comfortable with impact play and anal play. I am very open to other ideas and happy to chat further about kinks and limits as we go.
Lastly, I wholly subscribe to the safe, sane, and consensual mantra and I would expect anyone I play with to do the same.
Hopefully this has interested a few of you, and if so, please don’t hesitate to send me a message and I’ll try to reply as soon as I can.
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