Hi hi! I'll start this off by saying that I'm not a submissive - I don't want to obey you, I don't want to be given rules, and I sure as hell don't want to be punished if I've done something "wrong." I do, however, dabble within some things within the BDSM sphere. (More listed below.)

I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-32 who is not into degradation and wants to work on building something monogamous and real with someone. I'm talkative, and phone calls are required as I don't just want to get to know you via text.

I cannot emphasize this enough - I'm NOT into the abusive, demeaning, humiliating side of BDSM. I like to be loved, cherished, doted on, and praised, and I return affection and appreciation to my partner.

I want something stable and long term or slightly long term. I'm an adult, and not a coward, so I won't ghost you.

I am not super kinky; I tend to be too vanilla for kinky people, and too kinky for vanilla people. I'm not promiscuous. I have far more limits than kinks, so it would be better and easier to say what I AM into: -Praise kink, praise kink, praise kink -Rope bunny -Slight masochism (impact play, clamps, and some others) -Funishments -Occasional overstimulation -Sensory deprivation (Earplugs, blindfolds, but not gags) -Monogamy only

As for the personality side of things, I LOVE talking, I'm very passionate and fun. I'm incredibly feminine. I love artsy things, male modern country music, and Taylor Swift is a major obsession of mine. I love reading, sewing, swimming and shopping. I'm pro-choice (please don't talk to me if you're not), and I believe in Jesus, but I'm not super religious. I don't smoke, do drugs, or sleep around, and I hardly ever drink. I'm a resident night owl.

I can get along well with a lot of people, though on this subreddit particularly I do have a difficult time finding someone who is "tame" enough for me. But alas, here I am. If you do decide to reach out, please mention your age, location, what you're looking for, a description of your appearance, and any fun thing you want me to know about you!