[Made this post a while ago but apparently posted it to the wrong subreddit so I’m re-posting it 😅]

Making a new post after a while of talking to people, and figuring more out about myself. I’m looking for something more than just a situationship, though it can start that way. Preferably something that turns into long-term. But before you read on, I have some requirements;

— I do not want kids. I have had surgery and CANNOT have kids. No I won’t change my mind. I’m looking for someone that feels the same.

— I’d like someone within the age range of 26-37. Please don’t message me if you’re older.

— Please be a generally open-minded person!!

— Please have basic communication skills & send me a message telling me about yourself!

— Not a requirement but if you have a motorcycle and show me a photo… I’m more likely to open that chat 👀

Those are the biggest barriers I’ve found so far when looking for someone on my BDSM journey. If you meet those, hi! 👋🏻 I’d love to speak with you.

[Also, I seem to meet a lot of people trying to rush into something long-term way too early on for me. While I do want that eventually, I’m not in a hurry! It takes time for me to build trust and a connection to you. Let’s take the time to have fun and really get to know each other first!]

What I’m looking for…. Probably more of a gentle daddy dom dynamic. I am attracted to caretakers, someone that is generally gentle but can be a little more rough sometimes too. I’m a bit of a brat so I’d like a brat tamer if that’s something you’re into as well. Looking for someone good at communicating, especially when it comes to texting or calling. I need mental stimulation and love banter and teasing throughout the day. Kinks like rope play and whatnot are just a bonus for me and we can talk more about that if we connect, but I’m more concerned about the relationship dynamic over anything. Hope to hear from ya!