Somewhere out there is a guy. He's roughly between the ages of 24-35, kind, gentle, intelligent, silly, witty, and emotionally mature. He is polyamorous/ethically non-monogamous (or doesn't mind me being so, at least) and family oriented, wants marriage (legality of the marriage is negotiable) and kids of his own, but not locked into life plans with someone else already or only looking for "casual" or "secondary" connections. He is incredibly kinky- mainly a pleasure/soft dom with some streaks of sadism. He knows how to be patient, he loves to hold out and tease someone, he craves that long, slow buildup more than anything else. He wants to help his partner structure their lives and recieve devotion and adoration in return. He has put time in to heal, seeks peace and works on cultivating only healthy relationships.

And hey, it would be a bonus if he likes: -Video, board, and card games -Comedy/romcoms/animated media/musicals, and discussing/analyzing said media -Indie/folk music -Having his own unique sense of fashion -Building/creating things -Driving (I'm a passenger princess with a pretty singing voice, I can be a great travel partner 😉) -Cats!

If this is you, well, goodness, where have you been?! I've been looking for you, goofball.

About me: 🧠 I am a recovered borderline and am self Dxd autistic/ADHD, I manage my mental health with cannabis (am considering lessening my dependence on it at this point). Polyamorous (obviously), demisexual, omniromantic, leftist, atheist, active listener. I have put a lot of effort into self-improvement and it's important to me that my partner(s) do, or at least care, about the same. I have also devoted a fair amount of mental effort into learning about parenting and will continue to do so, I intend for the generational curses I carry to end with me. 🌸 I dress quite feminine, a lot of dresses and skirts- florals when I'm dressing casual; bright, fun, pastelcore or goth-lite when I'm feeling more energetic about my style. I enjoy bright, fun makeup and painting my nails, especially if I'm wearing something chosen by a handsome man ☺️ 🎮 I play video games, mostly PvE survival, cozy games, visual novels, settlement builders, and story rich solo RPGs. 🎨 I have all sorts of artistic and crafty hobbies, including drawing, painting, embroidery, sewing, and I currently learning how to use procreate, but as a traditional artist, there's certainly a learning curve 😅 I want to build a business out of my creations and have made a few steps in that direction, but its a work in progress. 🎶 I collect Fandom merch and Vinyl records, my prize collection piece is my copy of Bright Eyes' "The Studio Albums", but I really want the complete set of Radical Face's "The Family Tree" albums. I listen to a fair amount of indie/folk music, but I am also entirely obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter.

⛓️ Kinkwise, I am quite open-minded. I'm a sadomasochistic switch, though I have two subs already so I'm really mostly looking for a Dom or Dom leaning switch. I love body worship/sensuality (giving and receiving) with extra emphasis on recieving foot/leg worship. Take a look at my kink list if you'd like to know more ☺️ https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/#dWMWMpR

For those of you interested in seeing, here are a couple pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/UnUPlAe

Okay, I think that just about covers it. I prefer reddit chat over messages, but ultimately as long as you put some effort into the message you send, I don't mind which you use. Let me know a bit about yourself (bonus if you include a SFW picture), what you think might make us a good fit for one another, and if you'd like an ice breaker- what is your favorite quote, or what is one that inspired you to live your life a certain way? Mine is, "what's true will be true, our job is to deal with that truth", from season 6 of Community. That has become a bit of a mantra for me when I start to get worried about something. Thanks for reading, and good luck in your search!