I am a submissive trans man, on T & I've had top surgery. That said I am androgynous & femme and don't expect it to ever change.

I'd like to build something lasting with a Dom who likes me for who I am. I am a trauma survivor with many kinks and special needs as a sub. I have a strong personality and am a dynamic & driven person who craves giving all of me over to an even stronger Dom with caregiving as well as sadistic tendencies. I'm a cerebral masochist into roleplay and high concept longer scenes. I would want to build up to TPE but obviously with a healthy understanding that it won't be like porn or movies. I'm open to different dynamics and possibilities.

Lookswise: I'm small/petit but I have lost a lot of weight in the past year so my body isn't perfect. I still think I'm above average in looks. I'm biracial

kinks: pain, control, degredation, dark romance, cnc, incest, virgins, medical, surgeries, deepthroat, bondage, pet play, dehumanization, ageplay, monsters, insertion, stretching, anal, hypnosis, sleep play & overstim, being cared for, aftercare, fitness, 3 holes, body mod, tattoos, disability & trauma, forced orgasm

Limits: blood, anything illegal, perm harm, cuck, sissy, detrans (some misgendering ok), feederism, actual abuse, misogyny, chastity or orgasm denial

Anything not listed is on the table for discussion.

We also must be compatible in other ways, I love reading, writing, animals, socializing, the outdoors, I'm an extrovert and while you don't have to be I don't get along with extreme introverts and you should be delighted by my extroverted nature even if you're not an extrovert yourself.

In your first message please say something that shows you took the time to read, your location & age, pic will put you to the front but not required. I care far more about personality, though I do expect you to be confident in yourself.

Please be local or able to travel to my area frequently. I'm strictly monogamous & will choose one person to focus on at a time - I expect the same courtesy