Welcome and thank you for stopping by. My name is Nicholas, or Nick, and like with all names that choice is yours. I won't ever tell you to call me anything specific. I believe titles are earned and pet names are that much more special when they come from your partner without influence.

I'm not new to the lifestyle, I've been devouring everything I can get my hands on since highschool. From articles, to blogs, community events, podcasts, books. I personally think I have a pretty solid understanding of D/s relationships and dynamics, but always learning. The area I lack most in is real life play. For the last 17 years I've been with partners who gave it a shot but it wasn't for them. And having decided pretty early on that I wanted this incorporated into my life, it was pretty devastating news to find out. But those ran their courses and put me right where I'm supposed to be currently.

Some things about myself, I have lost count how many times I've heard "you give off big time Daddy vibes" lol. I am a father, animal lover, polyjamorous music and singing enthusiast, chef, reader, and I despise running. I think I'm handsome and you probably will agree if you don't hate my lumber jack-esque look. Vanilla I'm into so many things it's honestly ridiculous. The current hyper fixations are disc golf, and tech stuff. That's vague on purpose lol. I've got a nerdy side. I've got an artsy and crafty side. And I've got a manly rugged outdoors side. There's a lot to get to know so please enjoy asking and answering questions yeah?

Non vanilla I love love love to praise and hype you up. I would rather reward than punish. I also like to humiliate/degrade/embarrass... Really I just like seeing you squirm and blush awkwardly. I am not a brat tamer. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy some playful brattiness, I just prefer eager to please and obey energy and a desire to impress me with how good a girl you can be. I don't do diapers, shit or blood. Damn near everything else is on the table for discussion at least.

So what/who am I looking for? Well I would like this to be long term and the real deal. I would like it to eventually be 24/7 TPE and monogomous with some possible exceptions to that. I would like to be able to play in the real world, so nearby or willing to relocate. I do ask that you be hwp which I hate even saying because I would bet I would shock you with what qualifies as that to me. Honestly if you have a cute face you're probably golden. I'm not looking for a super model. Also actively participate and contribute to the conversation. And have decent communication skills. I don't care about your age, relationship status or experience level. And because apparently this is a thing? I promise you that whatever you're into isn't that weird and won't frighten me. Don't hold back is what I'm getting at. I want the real you not the filtered version

That got a bit long. If you are still reading you may as well send a message lol. That applies even if it's older. Somewhere In that message I want your age, name, general location or time zone, your favorite cut for underwear, your least and most favorite parts about yourself, and a specific reason why you felt like writing to me. Great job getting through all that little lady haha, you deserve a gold star for sure.