i'm interested in IRL only!! of course i'm available to chat frequently, but i expect physical compatibility and chemistry to be our top priority. life is too short to faff about jerking ourselves off :) being willing/able to meet within a timeframe of a few weeks is ideal.

i don't need all of these things all of the time, nor are they everything i need, but if these are in your hard limits, then we probably won't be a good fit: hypno, conditioning, TPE, CNC, free use, degradation, misogyny, anal, cuckquean (NOT poly/harem)

i'm strictly dominant. switches are lovely but i have next to no interest in submitting sexually or otherwise. if power struggles are important to you (this includes the type of brat who likes to win) then we won't be a good fit. at the same time i am seeking someone who can express herself confidently and intelligently as an equal. help me shape our ideal dynamic while recognizing that in my role as the dominant i'll be the one providing direction and imposing my will when it's necessary.

my kink is romantic yet degrading, freeing yet controlling, dissociative yet intimate, and always in pursuit of an ideal without settling for just enough. my kink is about much more than sex and violence and i will not hesitate to demand your submission in ways that might be hard to wrap your head around - but i always expect you to try your best until that grip on things gives out completely.

i'm an established professional with plans for my future, financially secure, emotionally mature, well-read, and well-reasoned--and i'm an incurable sadist who wants to push, pull, tug, and toss you to new depths of sensation, experience, and depravity. i hope you'll learn quickly to thank me for the privilege of being my victim. i love smart, quick-witted women who communicate well and - who understand that their need for a man is leagues deeper than any practical dependence for survival.

i'm tall, white, and handsome, with shoulder length brown hair, blue eyes, and well groomed facial hair. strangers often tell me that i look like seth rogen. i don't fixate on titles but it will be important to me that you wear a collar and learn to follow certain simple rules meant to encourage your obedience and ongoing free use.

your picture gets mine, it should go without saying but please put effort into your introduction or don't waste your time. i'd like to know what makes you think we could be compatible, why i should poke and prod and play with you until i really get to know you. i'm seeking a partner, not a fuckdoll - even if i insist on using you like one.