This is probably a weird way to open one of these posts, but, the past month has been pretty rough for this country, I'd say, in ways that kind of complicate the dynamics of BDSM. As a dominant, it's always been very important to me that my partner freely choose to serve me, but now there are a lot of people trying to strip women of their agency. My top priorities are to make my sub feel comfortable, respected, and safe, but that's become much harder lately. Still, though, I desire connection just as much as you do (assuming you're still reading), so I would like to, as best I can, provide you with the safety to let go, and indulge your needs.

My ideal partner is someone I can hang out with, someone with whom I can cuddle up on the couch and talk about our hobbies, interests, passions. Sure, I love to have a woman tied up, pinned down, bent over, collared, and so on, but it's that rapport, and genuine emotional bond that makes dominating you truly fulfilling for me. I want to know everything about you, truly understand you, find out what makes you happy, and what turns you on.

As an aside, I'll note that I have pretty diverse interests, including but not limited to: Classic movies and television, music, books, tabletop role-playing games, board games, card games, video games, swimming, cats, live theater/musicals, cooking, and documentaries/video essays. My one major dislike is being out in nature, I'd much rather walk around a museum than a hiking trail. I used to love following current events/politics, but since 2016, I can no longer enjoy that, though I still strive to remain well-informed.

In the bedroom, I tend to lean into pleasure over pain. I enjoy teasing, edging, overstimulation, erotic hypnosis, light bondage, things like that. I also have a pretty massive breeding kink (which has become rather politicized lately, so I'll add that I'm very much pro-choice). Of course, I also seek to accommodate my partner's kinks, and I have no problems getting rough on request, but I'm not particularly sadistic by nature (well, unless it comes to teasing...), so if you prefer pain, I'm unlikely to be a good match for you. I also enjoy free use and casual sexual contact, so, in the aforementioned cuddling and talking, it's entirely likely that I would also be playing with your breasts, or having you warm my cock.

Outside the bedroom, I'm pretty easygoing, and I'm not looking to control anyone's diet or personal life, but I do enjoy making plans, budgets, itineraries, etc., so if you're the type who prefers letting others handle the logistics in a relationship, I can definitely do that. In general, I don't get too worked up over petty issues, like, if a personal matter interrupts our time together, that never bothers me. You can also vent to me about your problems as much as you'd like, I've found that I don't have any sort of "limit" for that. I tend to be protective of my partners, I'm quick to step between them and anyone or anything that may be upsetting them. I also like to act possessive in a fun way, but I'm very much not the jealous type.

Now, of course, there are some hard requirements for me, age-related and such, so please be:

-Close to my age (30 preferred) -Single -Non-smoker (weed is fine, but tobacco is an absolute dealbreaker) -Wants kids, but doesn't have any yet -Left-wing (Trans rights, ACAB, eat the rich, etc.)

Alright, if you're still reading after all of that, and you're interested in getting to know me better, see if we click, feel free to message me. To prove you've read my post, I'd like you to include in your message your overall impression of me. I've said a lot about myself, but there's plenty left to the imagination, so I'm curious what your imagination comes up with to fill in the blanks. Thank you very much for reading, and happy holidays.