Hi, I go by Plant, and I’m looking for a short-term, casual caregiver/Dom relationship with a focus on emotional connection and exploring my little/sub side in a mostly nonsexual way (romance is ok!). I’m asexual, so while I’m open to sexting after about a month of getting to know each other, the focus will remain on nonsexual dynamics. As a side note, I might not participate in sexting if I find that it’s not something I’m interested in.

I’d like to go at a slow pace, so if you’re not comfortable with taking time to build trust, this might not be the best fit. I’d love for you to be 20–24, taller, have a deep voice, and be someone who works out (though age is the only must). I’d also love for you to be someone I find attractive, but I know attraction is subjective, so this doesn’t mean you have to meet every preference. I’m just most drawn to people who are taller, have a deep voice, and take care of themselves (e.g., work out or stay active).

I’m a junior in college, so my academics come first, and I’d hope you’d encourage me in that rather than derail me. I would love regular check-ins throughout the day, and whenever possible, sitting on calls together and sharing our screens or doing something together. I live in the EST timezone, so similar time zones are preferred. In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, reading, and learning Korean. Also, I recently started to hyperfixate on motorcycles and working out so happy to talk about that too!

I struggle with ADHD and anxiety, so reassurance is key. I like teasing, have a hand/vein kink, a praise kink, a size kink, and love daily tasks and routines! I haven’t tried out rewards/punishments with daily tasks, so I’d love to try them out. I also love outfit control :) I’m a newbie, so I’d prefer to take time to get to know each other before exploring new kinks or surrendering. I can discuss the sexual things I’d be eventually comfortable/interested in doing in dms^{^} I can get really clingy/needy, and I appreciate if I’m told beforehand when you may not be as available for the day!

I’m happy to share life pics and selfies as trust grows, and I’d also love to hear about your limits and preferences to make sure we’re a good match. Please again, only reach out if you’re actually 20-24!