Are you looking for a fun, exciting, and kinky relationship? Would you like being with an inventive dom who never lets things get old and gives you a place to turn your brain off and be taken care of?

I’m 30M, 6’4”, and a normal weight. I’m looking for a submissive who loves bdsm, especially bondage, to enter a long-term relationship with. I’m open to a relationship starting online, but would like it to soon move to being in person.

I currently live in Ohio in the US, but my job can be done in most places so I’m open to moving if I connect with the right person. I want to build a life with someone that incorporates bdsm into daily life, but not completely overtaking normal life with it. Frequent bondage, some training, chastity, orgasm denial, and free use are some of my favorite kinks, but I have a lot more too and am open to exploring! The more bondage in my life, the better, and I’d love to be with someone who feels the same!

I work in the tech industry with a good income, so I like to think that I can provide stability and am reliable. My non-kink interests include reading, writing (I publish fantasy fiction!), international travel, tabletop games/rpgs, a little bit of online gaming, and bouldering. I’d like to share some hobbies with my partner, bonus points if you’re into role playing games as well! Kinky nerds are the best.

As for personality, I’m pretty laid back and enjoy a good mix of evenings in and fun events/travel. I put a lot of importance in good communication, too, which I think is important in any bdsm dynamic.

I'm also very into artistic bondage and am learning shibari ties. If that's your thing, we'll get along even better! Last thing: I’ve had a vasectomy, so kids are off the table for me.

If any of that sounds fun, shoot me a message! I’m happy to chat.