The holiday season is coming up and I'm feeling festively frisky! Also, being able to keep each other warm as the days get chillier is an added bonus.

About me: 44-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is taking a break from computers to take some art classes. I'm single, never been married and have no kids (and am not interested in having any). I enjoy reading, drawing, practicing guitar, photography, video games, walking, lifting weights and yoga. Outside of the bedroom, I want to do stuff like hold hands and have dumb inside jokes and cuddle but in the bedroom I want to slap you around and call you degrading things.

What I'm Looking For:

In a recent post here, the writer stated "I don't want to be a slut. I want to be your slut." That's exactly the kind of attitude I'm looking for in a partner.

Looking for someone relatively close, but I'm up for chatting online if you're willing to meet up at some point. Depending on our chemistry and how we get along, I'm open to either something casual or something serious (and anything that falls somewhere between). Whatever our situation ends up being, I'm only interested in monogamy - juggling multiple partners isn't something that interests me, regardless of how casual/serious our relationship is.

Aside from one who identifies as "independent in the streets/submissive slut in the sheets", I don't have a specific type of woman I'm looking for but at the bare minimum it is important to me that you are able to hold a conversation. Also would like to exchange unfiltered SFW pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction matters and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks.

As you may have guessed from the title of this post, I'm most compatible sexually with women who are submissive in the bedroom and

• enjoy being treated roughly

• enjoy being degraded verbally

• are eager to please

• enjoy role-playing and/or bimbofication

but this list is not exhaustive and I'll be more than happy to discuss others as well as get into the specifics of what I've mentioned above.

Random SFW Facts About Me (That Could Possibly Stimulate Conversation)

• My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.

• Latest Addition to My Phone's Photo Album: Picture of my nearly completed first oil painting.

• Most Recent Mundane Errand Completed: I did laundry yesterday!

• What Did I Have For Breakfast Today?: A banana and some blueberries.

• Last Treat Enjoyed: Leftover pumpkin pie from Thanksgiving.

• Currently Listening To: Saudade - Kupla

• Currently Watching: The San Diego Zoo livecam of their new tiger cub. He's ridiculously adorable!

• Currently Wearing: My comfy sweatshirt that I got from Target and light grey sweatpants.

• Currently Contemplating: If I should workout or crawl back under the warm cozy covers.

• Favorite beverage: Mandarin orange herbal tea

If you're interested, please say "hi" AND let me know a little bit about yourself. Also, to let me know you read the entire post and are not a bot, please tell me:

• Have you finished your Christmas shopping yet?

• What's a piece of media (movie/song/book/tv show/etc) that you recently enjoyed?

• What's your favorite dessert?

Low effort responses (e.g. "hey", "how's it going", "tell me more lol", etc.) will be completely ignored :-P Looking forward to hearing from you!