Hey everyone!

I'm a 28 year old man looking for someone to dive deeper into the dom/sub lifestyle. I'm very dominant in my everyday life, but have never had the opportunity to be in any real dom/sub relationship. I'm hoping to find someone that is also newer and looking to explore, or has some experience and is willing to submit to someone new to the lifestyle. Looking for something long term preferably, but open to shorter term situations. I am also open to in person, but that would come after some time online.

About me: I'm a 5'7 white male that has been compared (looks wise) to Brad Pitt and have also been called the white Jon B (bonus points if you already know who that is.) So I feel like I can say I would be considered conventionally attractive. I will provide pictures to prove I'm real. I'm fit and care about my health, so I stay active as much as I can. I'm big into hiking, being on the water, up to extreme sports like rock climbing or skydiving. I'm also a gamer, almost exclusively on PC at this point. I tend to lean towards shooters, but I've been known to dabble is plenty of other genres.

What I'm looking for: Ideally, I want to find someone who is willing to submit to me both sexually and in a lot of their daily life. I don't expect to have full control of your life or day to day, but I want to have input. Preference is younger (obviously don't be underage) but I'm open to a few years older if you're willing and we are attracted to each other. Obviously that means attraction is a must. With that, I ask that you be at least average build. Fit is not required, but have some interest in health and fitness. It's a major part of my life and will become a part of yours if we connect. Also, you must not be overly shy. Pictures, videos, video calls, and audio will all be required.

What I provide: I will be a soft dom, but hard when needed. My goal is to help guide you in life, and make sure you are taken care of physically and mentally. For anything long term, I don't want anyone that only wants to talk when they are horny. I understand work and life happens, but I want some semblance of control and influence in my sub. I will be available for you as well. I want your trust and confidence that I know what is best for you and will guide you in the right direction.

Main kinks: Orgasm control, JOI, degradation, impact play, anal play, public play, bondage

Hard limits: Urination, defecation, age play, beastiality, blood play, knives/needles/puncture play, extreme pain/permanent markings

There are more kinks than listed, but those listed are the ones that come to mind that I would prefer were included in our relationship. Hard limits most likely also have some missing, but that's what came to mind while writing this post. Kinks will be negotiated during our conversation.

If you have made it this far, message me your age, name or nickname that I can call you by, and your favorite hobby!