Hello,

I've had a frustrating few weeks, and as a sadist I have ways I want that stress to be vented. But I have found my usual games and interactions to be too unsatisfying in regard to that feeling. I like more submissive and obedient subs plenty, and brats can be fun too, but I have been thinking a lot about how sometimes it can be exhausting carrying interactions because they are so submissive it doesn't feel like I am bouncing off of anyone or bantering.

That is where the current fantasies have come in. A lot of subs can be looking for a caretaker, but I am interested in someone who wants to be ordered around or conquered who has a strong will and success of their own. The high class business woman who wants to be taken down a notch, the kind and hardworking MILF who wants a break, the ace student who is constantly expanding their mind. Someone who can be conquered but still able to function and complete tasks or think ahead just a bit is really hot. Tinkering in a mind who's got some horse power under the hood is very attractive to me. I want to feel like we are exchanging because we can't help but be drawn to each other, not that we are codependent.

I think a way to also think about this may be a sort of 'lieutenant sub' type. Someone who defers to a higher up but still can operate to a significant degree on their own. What comes to my mind is what you might see in stories; Lex Luthor's assistant, Shego from Kim Possible, femme fatale's in bond movies, the dark queen to a dark king in a lot of fantasy stories, like the wife of shao khan in Mortal Kombat. Someone I can plan with and who also has ambition is really hot. I know some women are dommes or switches, or maybe have a pathetic man fetish, we may differ in what we are looking for but feel free to message me anyway.

Ideally I'd like to talk to someone longer term and see what develops. I am open to a lot of things but a good sub's presence would do me a lot of good and would be appreciated and praised as was fit. I'd at least like to get to a voice basis for a minor goal.

Outside of kink I enjoy games, both board and video, movies, cooking, exercise, travel, language, fantasy, DnD, nature and more. Recently I have enjoyed looking at nice whiskey for my own gourmand enjoyment, making/buying presents for loved ones, and looking at old lore about Gaelic peoples.

If you sound like a good fit please let me know, and reach out via DM. I am open to being contacted at any point. If this is not for you, I understand. Best of luck to all those searching.