Hey there anyone reading this after sorting through the other 100 M4F posts!

I'm a 29 year old dom in western PA (about an hour away from Pittsburgh) who is looking for a sub to talk/play with throughout the day. I work from home, and as much as I love it, it can get boring so I would love to have a sub to talk with, tease, and play with during that. I would much rather in person than online (happy to start online though) because I am looking for this to a long lasting relationship, and I can not honestly say I see myself moving anytime soon.

Let get the negatives out of the way first:

I never had an IRL BDSM relationship, so all my experience is online, but I have been in active in it for 9 years. I've been in plenty of online bdsm/ddlg relationships, so while I have no in person experience, I'm a great at rping, giving instructions, and all kinds of online/texting/voice play

About me:

6' , green eyes that look blue from a distance , dad bod , well kept full beard , wavy dark blonde hair , monogamous

Hobbies:

I love to read, play some video games, cook, binge watch netflix, go for walks, learn useless information, and playing with my cats

Kinks:

bdsm, ddlg (but NOT diapers and full on age regression), bondage, control (in any and all forms), denial, degradation/praise (honestly which ever you prefer or a combo of both), anal, m/s, , free use, pet play, rules and punishments, somno, and I'm open to and willing to try any kinks you may have other than anything illegal, scat, and anything going inside me

What I'm looking for:

I want someone who I can look vanilla and like the perfect little couple in the streets with, but is actual wearing a butt plug, an app controlled vibrator, and a collar that looks like a choker all underneath the clothes I picked out for her. Someone who will beg for me to fuck them and wreck every hole they have, but then wants to cuddle, eat some snacks, and watch TV right after

-between the ages of 21 and 31

-wants a relationship, in the long run