Hello all! I hope you are having a great day and that the holidays have been treating you well. I am looking to build a connection with someone- so, please allow me to introduce myself. 

I am 25 years old and have been active in the community to some capacity over the last 8 or so years. Outside of the kinky part of my life, I am an avid reader and writer. Truth be told, I would love to publish a novel someday and it is a goal I hope to achieve soon. My interests include horror, running table top rpgs, gaming (usually with my friends on ps5), going on adventures, learning new things about artists or niche topics, and working on art. It would be a bold face lie to say I wasn’t a geek at heart, which is why cosplay has caught my attention currently and don’t get me started on any of my particular interests (Cyberpunk, Silent Hill, Bioshock, the works of Chuck Palahniuk etc) unless you want me to ramble for hours. My passions are important to me and I am the kind of person to gush over anything I find interesting or over something I find ridiculously cute, vehicle it isn’t necessary, it would be nice to meet someone with similar interests. I am a sucker for cats so if you happen to have pets I am most likely going to ask about them just as much as I check in on you. I am a pretty far left person and am alternative as well- my particular flavor of alt is metal head mixed with burned out academic. I should also mention I currently live in the midwest and am happy with a long distance relationship with the expectation of eventually becoming an irl couple.

Now, what kind of dynamic am I seeking (outside of kink)? I want to build a relationship with someone and grow as a couple. I am looking for the Linda to my Bob or the Morticia to my Gomez. There is a feeling in me that I recognize that of being the desire to be known and know someone intimately. Cozy nights in with the tv droning on as snow falls outside while we find warmth in eachother’s presence, dates where we simply get lost and enjoy our company together as we take on the mundane tasks of day to day life, or finding an adventure and living life to its fullest- these are what I want to share with someone. If you are the kind of person who loves stealing hoodies, shirts, and jackets then you are in luck because I have so many and like to dress comfy when I am not out and about. Romance is what I am seeking in essence. While I don’t have anything against a short term dynamic, my main goal is as stated before and that is to find my person. I want to be the support and the anchor to help one grow and face anything that life could possibly throw one’s way. Fulfillment and serenity are words that come to mind when I think about what I seek from a romantic partner. Not every moment will be quiet nor should it- we are lively beings and with that comes the noise of life instead of ignoring it one should celebrate and dance to its tune. I want an emotional bond before delving too far into anything too NSFW. Sexual compatibility is important though so it isn’t like I am going to shun talks of it or anything, but chemistry/compatibility is key.

Which, brings us to the spice of this post and why I am looking here other than swiping endlessly on some app. In kink, I am flexible with how I approach my status as a dom. I do have a taste for rougher play, dirty talk, pet play, bondage, and impact play (amongst many other kinks that I would love to chat about). I like to give structure and routine. Do you need guidance or the warmness of someone’s voice encouraging you to push past whatever bounds you feel yourself compressed by? Maybe you desire to held by your throat and tied up or to be freed to embrace whoever it is you truly desire to be outside the conventions of “normal society” then perfect, I think we should talk then. Now, do you by chance need a softer approach, a gentle caress and the sensation of having someone lead you by the hand and grant you sanctuary to bloom while you explore who you feel you are meant to be? That is just as perfect lets talk too. The joy in these kinky dynamics is the shift and flow depending on what a session requires and more importantly what the participants need to feel fulfilled and comfortable within themselves. Now, I could wax poetic in this post forever- frankly I have probably gone on too far. So, that said if any of this sparked your interest then please feel free to send me a chat or message. I am looking forward to getting to know you and see how your day has been. If you have gotten this far, tell me what self care routine do you like to do after a long day. Take care! And I am looking forward to chatting!