Small opening statement I'm a sucker for control.

I am very new to BDSM I thought I wanted a standard D/s with a Free-Use dynamic. However after learning about Pet play I think I want to be someone's owner. Costumes aren't my thing but tell me if it's yours as that would intrigue me. I think Pet play or a human pet encompasses what I want. I want a pet who when I come home drowns me in affection. Enjoys long cuddles and movies. Doesn't resent that they know their place as a pet. I respect if you know what you want, but I'm new so if you're still figuring it out I understand and can relate.

I know I'm overemphasizing the dynamic part but really I do want a relationship at the end of the day I want to be someone's everything id like mutual respect good communication, trust, honesty and everything else that makes for a great relationship. I'm MONOGAMOUS so please no FWB or Polyamory. It's just not for me.

I'm not really looking to get into a dynamic quickly or maybe more accurately I really want to know someone deeply and trust them first. so if any of this interests you and you wanna talk ask questions (I'm an open book I really value honesty) Open your message as simple or as elaborate as you want. I also wouldn't mind talking to my fellow inexperienced individuals as figuring things out together I think makes sense.

Some of my interests SFW I collect movies (Blu-ray), video games, collect balisongs IYKYK, Cooking, and long walks.

My kinks include Free-Use, Sleep kink, CNC, Pet play, Breeding, Praise, and probably more. Also possibly Orgasm control/ denial?, Degradation?, TPE? But I'm not quite sure. I do have a long document with questions relating to kinks and fantasy but I don't want to open with that here before talking a little. Limits: anything illegal, scat, blood, bruising and possibly more.

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