I'm looking for something quite specific.

I want to be in control, to be listened to, to have my directions followed. I spend my days feeling as though nothing is in my control and that everything I say is being ignored. Ideally, you're good at following directions. I'm also quite partial to voice calls and phone sex, and ideally, you're submissive and into these things as well.

In short, I want to tell you how to touch yourself. When to touch, what to touch, when to take your clothes off, which piece of clothing you take off, how fast, how slow, when to start, when to stop, when to cum. I want to build it up and tear it down, repeatedly, until you've either gotten frustrated to the point of insanity or you're begging for the release I may or may not let you have. I want to hear you say how good it feels just as much as I want to hear you swear at me for taking control away from you.

I do not like degradation or humiliation. I absolutely refuse to refer to anyone as "slut", "whore", "bitch", or anything similar, and I likely will not engage with you if you refer to yourself as such.

I prefer a gentler touch, which seems out of place in this particular sub. I like to praise and give affirmation while simultaneously denying you release on the grounds that I want you to work for it.

Things about me:

• Low voice
• Based in GMT-6, open to time zone differences
• Can and will engage in non-sexual conversation
• Likely will not be masturbating during a session, though it's not off the table.

Do keep in mind that I work full-time, so daily communication might not happen. While I'm not opposed to something long-term, bear in mind I'm not looking for anything serious.

• At the risk or scaring everyone off, here's my short list of requirements:
• No DDLG, CGL, nothing involving age regression.
• I'm not "daddy", "master", or "sir".
• Must be 21 .
• If you are drunk or high, I'm not interested.
• No low-effort messages.

I have many reasons for requiring these things of any potential partners. I'm willing to offer you a short warming-up period if you're unsure, just please be aware that I become easily aware when things won't be heading in any direction.

If you've made it this far, thank you for reading, please message with a little about yourself if you're interested.