Good evening Reddit!

To start, I'm looking for something online based to start, and I'd like to ,eventually transition to an in person dynamic. I've dated vanilla men for years. It's time to change that. I want to find someone who I can eventually submit to in person. Someone who can be patient with me, build trust with me so we can move to something in person. So for all the guys who are younger than 30, the married or attached guys, the inexperienced guys who don't know what they are doing. This post is not for you.

I'm an awkward, sarcastic, easy going submissive kind of girl who craves attention. I like to laugh and don't usually take myself seriously. I'm the kind of submissive that enjoys praise and obedience, routines, rules and tasks.

You are hopefully sarcastic and/or well versed in banter, 30 , dominant, patient, able to type full words, and preferably not a robot/compulsive liar/catfish. Also single (didn't realize this needed to be said but I'm single you should be too. I have no sympathy for dead bedrooms)

Ideally what I'm looking for is a Dom who enjoys control, who wants to slowly take control over parts of my day to day routine, and then of course from time to time use me like nothing more than a naughty little toy and set of holes for your amusement. For those of you curious to know more of what that means I'll include some of my kinks below.

spankings, degradation, object insertions, stretching, orgasm control, bladder control, wardrobe control, butt plugs, toys, name calling etc etc.

I am looking for something that is ongoing, not just a one time deal. I am in no rush and am waiting to find the right person that I connect with on more than just a kink based level. I want a partner, a friend and a dominant. (and I know that's a lot to ask for)

Anyway, if any of this resonates with you and you meet the above mentioned requirements feel free to send me a message, tell me a fun fact that you've learned recently and let's have a chat and get to know each other see if there is mutual interest.