I’m a fan of efficiency and getting straight to the point so the title kind of says it all but this lovely platform thinks people will actually read thought out posts so here we go…

A few important things that might be immediate dealbreakers for you:

1. I am happily married. Hubby is aware of and supports my search. He is my Dom but is not a switch and I truly am thus, my search. I need a sub, not just a fuck buddy who think they’re one. You would be MY sub, not ours. However, he will be there. Please be ok with that. Wild concept, I’m sure but we actually like each other and enjoy being married so we’re always doing things together. Again, you’d be my sub only but we can discuss further.

2. I’m on the bigger side (height alone, I’m about 5’9) but am actively working on it. Maybe we could all go for a walk?

3. I’m by no means femme but am not entirely masc either. I’m your stereotypical nerdy bi girl in a lot of ways that’s usually in a hoodie and leggings.

What I’m looking for:

1. I AM open to both men and women but STRONGLY prefer women. I put this here to avoid the parade of men that just click as soon as they see f4m. That being said, I prefer cis women.

2. Age range is 21 - 40.

3. Please be either in the capital district, in state, or at the very least willing to drive/be of service often.

4. DDF and willing to verify.

5. As you can see, I take this part of my life very seriously and ask that you do as well.

Kink/Dynamic related:

1. I will immediately ignore you if you just jump to honorifics. I also do not jump to collars. Again, pretty serious aspect of my life. This isn’t a casual interest for me so I won’t go about it casually either.

2. Despite how I may appear in this post, I’m more of a soft Domme. That being said, I’m a pleasure Domme, sadistic, and bit of a primal.

3. My limits are anything with scat, age play, race play, and anything involving live animals.

4. While I would have a set list of rules for you, I don’t do “scenes”. Meaning of course we would still discuss boundaries, limits, etc but I like things to occur naturally. Otherwise, it feels like a job and takes away the fun.

Human/civilian me:

1. I’m a proud nerd, bookworm, and occasional gamer.

2. I have a cat and will always be willing to swap pictures of fur babies lol

3. I have a few tattoos and will be getting more soon but absolutely love swapping tat pics and talking about ideas.

4. I’m sarcastic as all fucks so if you get offended easily, probably won’t be a good fit. By online terms, I’m more black cat/doberman energy than anything else lol

As a mini test, let me know what you’re currently reading or one of your favorite books/movies/artists/authors/etc in your reply.

I promise I’m fairly easy to talk to. Just don’t be an asshole 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck to everyone in their search.