Iām a 33-year-old woman who knows exactly what she wants and isnāt afraid to go after it. I work hard, love spending time with my pets (my dogs and cats are like my children), and find peace in nature ā hiking, taking walks, you name it. But when it comes to my sexual needs, Iām not content with the ordinary. I have a very high sex drive, and I crave someone who can keep up with my intensity. Passion is everything to me, and I want someone whoās not only willing to satisfy me but also loves to please me in every way possible. Iām married, but letās just say my husband isnāt exactly the "dominant" type. Iām looking for someone who can fill that void, someone who can take full control and make my desires their priority. Discretion is a must ā what we share is between us and stays between us.
What Iām Looking For:
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā True Dominance: I donāt want someone who just plays at being dominant ā I need a man who is the role. Someone who can take full control, direct me, and make me feel completely desired. I want raw, passionate sex and someone who can push my limits while ensuring Iām always completely in tune with you. If you can be firm, confident, and push me to new sexual heights, but also know when to soften and care for me, weāre going to have an unforgettable connection.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Discreet & Respectful: My marriage matters, and I need someone who knows how to respect that. Discretion is key. I want something private, something intense, and something that stays just between us.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Discipline & Structure: I crave structure in all aspects of my life ā and that includes sex. I need clear rules, expectations, and accountability, but with a sense of care. I need someone who can guide me, challenge me, and ensure that Iām always working to meet your expectations, both in the bedroom and out. I want you to discipline me with purpose while nurturing me in the process.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Passionate Sex & Praise: I need someone who can match my high sex drive and keep me completely engaged. Sex is about more than just the physical ā itās about intensity, desire, and making every moment feel unforgettable. I want someone who will turn me on, drive me crazy, and push me beyond what I think Iām capable of. And I love being praised for it ā compliments and praise go a long way with me. If you know how to make me feel desired and appreciated, youāll have me eager to keep pleasing you.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Emotional Availability & Aftercare: Iām not just looking for someone to dominate me in the bedroom. I need someone who can handle the emotional side of this dynamic, too. Sometimes I need aftercare, sometimes I get bratty, but I always need someone who can take care of me after things get intense. I need you to balance passion with emotional care.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Patience & Growth: Iām always growing, but that means Iām not perfect. I need someone who has the patience to guide me through my sexual exploration, push my boundaries, and help me become the best version of myself. If youāre someone who enjoys helping me grow and evolve, especially sexually, then weāll have an incredible connection.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Physical & Mental Care: Aftercare is a huge part of what I need ā itās my love language. After things get intense, I need someone who knows how to care for me both physically and emotionally.
Ā Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā Ā Ā Ā Able to Host or Travel to Me: Iām not into endless texting or virtual fantasies. I need someone whoās willing to meet in person, build real chemistry, and create something tangible. Whether you can host or are willing to travel to me, Iām not looking for something casual or online. I want to experience real, passionate moments.
What Iām Not Looking For: If youāre just here to "play" at being a Daddy Dom or donāt understand the balance between control and care, weāre not on the same page. I need someone who can handle a woman with a high sex drive, someone who loves to please and challenge me, and who knows how to respect the boundaries of my marriage. If you canāt provide the intensity I need, or if discretion isnāt a priority for you, then this wonāt work.
So, if you think you have what it takes to satisfy my high sex drive, make me feel safe yet challenged, and create something passionate and real between us, send me a message with the word āBabygirlā so I know youāve actually read this
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