For any new, shy, or curious submissives; however you have found yourself here, welcome…

Allow yourself the space to genuinely check in with yourself; and honestly evaluate why you’re here.

At the end of the day, no one is forcing you to be here. Your curiosity has led you down this rabbit hole.

You have brought yourself to these subreddits.

You are the one drawn to these ideas of being guided, controlled, put in your place; and are acting on that impulse by scrolling onward.

Endlessly scrolling to the imagine of others sinking into mindless. Coaxing yourself with this imagery over and over, almost subconsciously at this point.

So far, you have done this to yourself.

Hopefully this post can be an opportunity for you to connect with the genuine impulse you feel; and commit to exploring why you’re actually here…

I have had some of the most rewarding conversations on this subreddit. Not all of which have ended up in magical immediate submission or sorts, but most of which have led to in depth discussions about the complex relationship between your genuine beliefs, your genuine impulses, and the ways we choose to present ourselves in our day to day lives…

Maybe you’ve dipped your toe in, and occasionally tried to chat with others here; or maybe you’ve only lurked. Maybe you’ve questioned, or even deleted, your profile on here, only to feel that pull to return, and the need to explore this impulse…

For whatever reason, you’ve found yourself curious about/drawn to this kink; playing with the idea of being questioned, convinced, and toyed with… as you mindlessly scroll, fantasizing about the potential for someone to take control of your impulses, allow this to be a moment of pause.

Take this moment to truly reflect on what’s brought you here.

Perhaps you've told yourself up to this point that you're just exploring. You scroll past videos, images, and text displaying submissive women releasing completely to the very same impulses you feel building within yourself. You’ve felt drawn deeper and deeper, chasing the feeling of complete surrender; but only as an observer with her hand coaxing between her legs.

Maybe your hand is already between your legs as you’re reading this. Or perhaps it will feel drawn there later in our conversation…

Maybe you’ve told yourself this is just fantasy. Let’s put that to the test, shall we?

Let’s play a little game.

I have a series of very simple questions about yourself, and your relationship to your own submissiveness. It’s so curious to examine the most genuine, and perhaps contradictory truths within yourself…

There’s no immediate demands; no barking orders. All I ask is honesty. Honest answers for me, but also for yourself. With every answer, you may notice the way you see yourself shift…

All it takes is a simple chat. (Chat is definitely preferred here on Reddit). Allow yourself to cross this seemingly simple threshold, sending a message; admitting you’ve been curious, unsure, and/or coaxing yourself to this fantasy from the sidelines. Even if it’s just a simple “I’m shy”, that can be a positive first step…

I look forward to our simple chat.