I’m not really sure how to structure this, especially weather to start with what I’m looking for or what I am. I want to put more effort into this post than most of the M4F posts that are made every minute.

I ideally have had the best relationships with women with certain personalities and interests that I’ll go over in a moment but I wouldn’t say I have one particular type. And I wouldn’t say they’re all requirements or mutually exclusive either. Like in terms of interests I would love if someone in with was rather nerdy but it’s not something that is needed to make things work in the past. I struggle to list everything I would like in a person because I see these types of posts as personals, and that’s in the name of most of these subreddits, but when I see some of the posts where the person just lists what they’re looking for, what qualifications you must have, what experience they have, and what they can offer it comes across more as a job application than a personal to me.

All that said I’ve always thrived being with someone who’s clingy and or emotionally attached, or at the very least prioritizes their partner, I love giving attention to someone who craves it and want to be important to someone in that context, and that's harder for me when someone is just very emotionally independent or just is that type of person who could go two days without talking to anyone and not even notice. I would say I am equally introverted and extroverted (and I'll talk more on that below), so I would say I am compatible with people who are one or the other or any mix of the two, but I definitely think I'm more suited to people who lean introverted. I love cute dates like going out to eat and to the movies, and I love traveling and want to travel a lot with my partner, but I would say even still most of the time would be spent just in each others company solely. Like I was saying before, being into nerdy things or just straight up being nerdy isn't a requirement but I think its a huge plus, and maybe that goes hand in hand with the introvert leaning part of what I was saying, but it always has been fun doing things like playing video games with my partner or reading together. I play mostly PC games nowadays but a wide variety of them and would love to talk about what games we play with any of the people who respond! Someone who wants to travel a good bit is also one of my biggest ideals. My biggest hobby is probably traveling, which I feel like is very off brand for nerds maybe but that’s how the cards fell! I’d love to talk about where I’ve been or where I want to go with somebody who also likes to travel. And again some people don't have that travel bug and would rather stick to what they're familiar with and I understand and it has not been an issue before! Lastly, and this is sort of vague I know, but I love someone whos very affectionate and kind, I know I am very doting but I love being with someone who is also, it usually has been a very positive cycle for me when I dote on someone and they are just as adoring in return and it just makes me want to admire and cherish them more and then its just a self fueling cycle from there, and its more difficult for me when someone cannot reciprocate at a somewhat similar level, you know? I know I put a lot into what I was looking for but I’ve met some amazing people from here before including some I was super compatible with so I didn’t want to just put a few things down.

Oh I’ll add this part since it’s a NSFW sub, I would love to discus any nsfw stuff in dms at any point you’d like, but I will say I’m a dominant and I have experience with a couple different dynamics! I’ve had things ranging from your box standard D/s, TPE, DDLG, TPE, petplay, and the list goes on but again I generally prefer to discuss those in the chats and after getting to know a bit about somebody. I do have a kink list I can send to anyone curious

I ended up putting what I was looking for first as I felt it gave a good preview of who I am just by context. But I am a 23 year old guy in the US on the east cosst. I would love to find someone local to my state but I have had online/LDR to IRL relationships before and I actually work in the travel industry so I can travel easily, meaning I would not mind something like that again, as long as it wasn't intended to be online permanently. And if you’ve been hesitant to find a LDR due to lack of in person meets this could be better! I’m an open book so hopefully chat soon and you can ask anything away!