Hello!

I'm a sub guy located in northern Colorado who is looking for an in-person situation to either create a long-term relationship, or gain some experience at the very least. I have online experience but at this stage of my life I would prefer someone in person that at least has a chance of turning into something more. I strongly perfer monogamy.

Me:

• I'm a bit of an athletic nerd. I played sports in school and go skiing a lot but I also am an engineer for my day job. I love LOTR, Star Wars, and other similar things.
• I would consider myself an introvert, I can take a while to open up around new people. I love to listen though, so if you're a yapper it will work out well.
• Looks wise I'm 6 feet tall and white with blue eyes and short brown hair. I workout regularly and stay in shape, but I don't have a 6 pack or the physique of a greek god. For context I weigh around 160, although that might be a little more considering the holiday we had a few days ago. I'm cool with trading pictures and verifying early on so we know what each-other look like.
• I like building things or doing DIY projects in my spare time. I bought a house recently so I have plenty to work on. I also like cooking, although that's more of the super involved Sunday meal type of cooking rather the every day type of thing. i also play video games and watch tv a little bit.
• I'm a bit of a people pleaser so that's sort of what lead me down this path.

Ideally you:

• Looking for something long term if it works out.
• Located somewhere along the front range, closer to NoCo or even north Denver if possible.
• Somewhere between about 24-33. I could stretch that a little bit if there's a possibility of a great connection though.
• Looks wise I would prefer someone who is in somewhat decent shape. Thick is fine but I'm personally not attracted to BBW body types. I don't really have any other preferences. Open to any and all ethnicities.
• The personality traits I value the most are honesty, intelligence and empathy. I believe those form a healthy base to grow off of.

Kinky Stuff:

• Some of my favorite kinks are orgasm control, mind play, and bondage. I would like to explore those more as there's only so much exploring I could do without an in-person domme. I have more but I'd like to explore everything together if possible. I will be bringing some toys to the table though.
• I enjoy a mix of soft and hard femdom. Keeping me guessing is part of the fun.
• My limits are bathroom, heavy humiliation, and things involving other people.
• I think my ideal relationship falls somewhere between a FLR and just kinky sex. I would like to give up some control outside of the bedroom but I would like to have some autonomy.

If this post interests you please reach out! I slightly prefer the chat function for initial conversations but DM's are perfectly fine too. I would like to move to a different platform within a few messages though.

This is getting a bit long, thanks and if you don't reach out I hope you find what you're looking for!