54 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for submissive muse

54 yo male Dominant with Daddy tendencies and a wide sadistic streak looking for a submissive sapiosexual who is witty, charming, gracious and has an easy laugh. Kinks are at the bottom.

I'm a veteran, play D&D, collect comics and teach actors how to look like they know how to handle firearms. I have a goofy sense of humor, dad jokes all day long and am easy going about most things in life.

I’m open to play partners including non-sexual Topping. I’ve been in the community for a long time and, while I don’t go to as many events as I used to, I still love swinging a paddle. I don’t do online though. Sorry, tried it and it’s not for me.

I’d rather find my muse, my ride-or-die baby girl. If that’s what you’re looking for then please continue reading.

You're similar to me: Non-judgmental, open-minded and curious, easily amused and gracious. Affectionate, too...I mean really affectionate. You're also not afraid of food stands in third world countries.

You're my opposite (we balance each other out): You're a planner, you worry about the details, you remember our friends' birthdays, you're feminine and enjoy the company of an erudite caveman. I'll be your rock, your coach and your safe harbor.

Us: Affectionate, soul-nurturing, whimsical at times, kinky and cultured. I want to be your biggest fan and want you to be the same. Even when we both know I'm being an idiot. I'm not a 24/7 TPE kind of guy as I prefer a more collaborative relationship but I do expect certain elements of the dynamic to be honored at all times.

Kinks include, but not limited to; impact play, restrains, breath play, orgasm control, cock worship, mind fucks, humiliation/degradation, public play and fear play. Apparently hugglebuggle is a thing too so I've added that to my kinks.

Here’s a pic of most of my collection.

https://imgur.com/a/zEnpelc