Are you a curious about the balance and tension between the dominant and the submissive? Are you curious why they're always drawn to each other? Are curious why the submissive needs the dominant and the dominant needs the submissive? If you are, this post is for you.

Key point 1: Opposition defines everything

What makes you crave the warmth of the summer? The harsh cold of the winter. What makes you enjoy the sunlight? The shade of night. What makes you crave softness? Roughness. Opposition defines everything.

Key point 2: Opposites attract

Positive attracts negative. Negative attracts positive. Masculine attracts feminine. Feminine attracts masculine. Dominant attracts submissive. Submissive attracts dominant. You are drawn to what you lack. It's why the union between man and woman is the perfect union. A man has qualities and lacks qualities. A woman has qualities and lacks qualities. Alone they are imperfect. Together they are perfect. That is what makes this type of dynamic fruitful. The yin and the yang. That is what makes this type of dynamic beautiful.

A dominant man takes on the burden of responsibility. He has to display competence, integrity, good judgement and the ability to lead. Because he demonstrates these qualities you trust his leadership. You trust his ability to take charge of you, to take charge of your dynamic and to take charge of your intimacy. A dominant man wants to keep you safe, he wants to protect you, he wants to provide for you and he wants to have you. A dominant man is possessive, he does not share. You are valuable to him. Your heart is valuable to him, your body is valuable to him and your sex is valuable to him. Why would he want anyone to know what you taste like? Why would he want anyone to know what you feel like? Why would he want anyone to make you feel unsafe? You belong to him.

Sexually, a dominant man wants to take you. He wants to taste you. He wants to use you. He wants to take his pleasure from you. He wants to ravage you. He wants to mount you. He wants to conquer you. He wants to fuck you. And most importantly...you know that's what he wants.

A submissive woman is a feminine woman, an attractive woman, a classy woman. She desires to feel safe, she desires to be free within the realm of safety. She desires to have no responsibility. She desires to be led. She desires to hand over her control and feel taken care of. She wants to stop overthinking, she wants to stop feeling anxious and she wants to stop making decisions. She just wants to enjoy being present in the moment, being happy and being sexual.

Sexually, a submissive woman wants to be taken. She wants to be tasted. She wants to be used. She wants to give pleasure. She wants to be ravaged. She wants to be mounted. She wants to be conquered. She wants to get fucked.

Together, a dominant man and a submissive woman create a union like no other. One filled with intense passion, one filled with meaning, one filled with eroticism, one filled with happiness and one filled with belonging. To complete both desires one must want to fuck and the other must want to get fucked. One must want to be led and the other must want to lead. One must want to be mounted and the other must want to mount. One must want to be conquered and the other must want to conquer. To have that sexual tension both opposite desires have to be present to have that resulting bliss of this dynamic.

So I ask again, are you curious about this dynamic? ;)

About me: I'm a 33 year old man, I would describe myself as a kind man, a gentleman and a dominant partner. I enjoy taking care of my woman. I work in healthcare and I've been enjoying this type of dynamic for a few years. Kinks to be discussed privately. I do not indulge short term dynamics. I only consider taking on a partner if there's a connection there and it will be a long term dynamic.

Introduce yourself if you're interested. Please include your age, your first name and what caught your attention in my post.