I am looking for a slave with whom I can have a relationship. Someone who knows they want to serve and will be all in. Someone who is also looking for total power exchange.

I am attracted to people who look feminine, whether they are women (cis or trans) or feminine-presenting men.

I am looking to settle down and get married eventually, and also enjoy the life we have together. Protocols, rituals, kinky play, and sex will be an integral part of our lives together. I want to build trust with someone and have a deep connection. I want something that is meaningful, where we can also express ourselves like real people that can laugh and have a good time too. I want to take care of someone, protect someone, and be taken care of. Above all, what I need most is a helper. I have goals that I want to achieve and while I can do that alone, it would be much with someone who can be my right hand. Age is not important, only that we are both wanting the same thing. I find that I tend to look for people in their 30s or older as they have found their desired direction in life, but again, not required as long as the criteria are met. Also, I prefer someone who lives within 2 hours driving distance.

With that out of the way, some further details. I am a Master. What that means to me is that I make intentional decisions about what I do with my life, where I lead it, and what want out of it. I want someone who wants to serve but not blindly. I will show you why I am worthy of your service. We must remember that we both bring something to the table, and as a Master, I will show that what I offer is worthy of devotion. I understand the responsibility that comes with taking on this role for someone who is looking for structure, accountability, and consistency. Above all else, the first rule is to protect the property.

I am part of the community in a few of the local areas and was recently covered by fellow Masters in recognition of service to the community. I take pride in my ability to help where I can. Service is not solely reserved for those on the right side of the slash. We all should serve our communities where and how we can. That's how we build our and others' futures. I want to ensure those who want to engage in healthy power exchange have a community and resources for that.

I am happy to share more specific interests related to kink during our conversation. I keep a list that we can discuss as well as why those items are what feed me. I want to enjoy scenes, get rough, be playful, bask in the sensual nature of a ritual we share, and enjoy the breadth of what M/s can offer. This may mean many things that I am happy to cover in detail. I am also passionate and romantic. I love to give surprises and see the joy on someone's face. I want that to be a regular part of our lives.

Most importantly, all relationships are partnerships. Both my slave and I must be invested for it to work. I also want to be able to focus on my slave so I do not want children, neither mine nor someone else's. This is important to me so I can focus my energy.

I have a stable career and goals. I work from home full time so I desire more social interaction. To that end, I spend time with friends or go outdoors when possible. I own my house and am self sufficient. I want someone to eventually move in once we have a bond and years under our belt so we can share our lives and expenses. Ideally, I would take care of our essentials and their share can be used to spend on the fun activities like hobbies and vacations. I am saving for retirement and you should be too. I enjoy indoor and outdoor hobbies such as gardening, woodworking, cooking but I prefer to bake, reading, working out, video games, movies, reading, and more. I will tell you about my projects and my passions. I am a huge nerd and have several game nights with different friends. I would love to hear about your interests and share stories. I love when someone spins a good yarn. I try to work on myself and learn whenever possible. I think change is vital in order to grow even though it is hard most of the time. I have a small travel destination list that I want to achieve at some point, and would enjoy traveling with a companion. Tell me your list.

I have resources in my local community that can vet me to you and I welcome your own resources if you have them.

If the above sounds like a fit, please message me, and tell me what you found interesting about my post.

Thank you for reading and I look forward to hearing from you.