I’m a gentle daddy Dom looking for a clingy sub. I’m married, so I prefer someone attached too, or someone who at least understands my situation.

My wife isn’t into this, it’s something we’ve talked about, but it isn’t something she’s interested in. It’s very much who I am, and something I need and crave.

I’m kind and very nurturing. I’m gentle but naturally dominant. I like to understand and get to know you first, before we can start a dynamic.

I like getting to know the vanilla side of you, how your mind works, what you’re into. I like having an emotional connection, as I believe a D/s dynamic is incredibly intimate. It’s as vulnerable as it gets and requires mutual trust.

I like voice notes and voice calls when possible. I’m firm and when we agree to something, I expect it to be done. I like helping you with things you’re struggling with, but I also check in a lot, to make sure you’re OK which is why I prefer someone who likes a lot of attention and has a praise kink.

Physically, I’m black, with a short beard and a cute face. I have an average build, which is now a slight dad bod. I have broad shoulders. If we click then we can share pics and see if the attraction is there.

I also really like curvier women. BBW, chubby, mombod, soft bellies, thick thighs. I like all the curves. I’m also looking for just one sub, hopefully long term.

Kinks include elements of TPE, choosing or picking your underwear, light impact play, light degradation (e.g. my slut), spanking, shibari, breeding, dirty talk. Giving praise. Free use. Open to many others.

Hard limits, scat, pee, anything illegal, animals, blood, marking, heavy degradation, and others like this.

I’m from the UK but open to pure online, so it doesn’t matter where you’re from. I also have no age preference. Send me a chat if you’re interested. My post won’t be up for very long, so if you’d like to chat, 💬 lease let me know.