I’m a man who values control, I always have been. Specifically the control that follows after another person has placed their trust in you. A healthy control, a supportive control, a sexy control.
My idea of control is not laying out a firm agenda or schedule, but a collaborative control that gives me the power to make the final decisions. The control that says you can dress yourself in the morning, but the door to the outside isn’t opened until I’ve approved the outfit. The control that says you know what, you haven’t earned the right to orgasm yet, hold out for longer until you’ve earned it.
Control is a nasty word that carries a connotation of abuse, but used correctly, with consent, and not taken advantage of, it can be a powerful tool for success in a relationship. I’m looking for the person who craves someone having this control over them, mentally stimulating them into improvement inadvertently and guiding them to their true potential.
I’m an educated man with a tall stature and athletic build, who despite a younger age has genuine experience and a vast amount of creativity to take things further than anyone else has been able to take you.
If interested, provide me with a brief description of yourself; and what your ideal control situation would be.
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