Good afternoon! As mentioned within the title, I'm currently seeking women interested in chastity (from a submissive point of view) and potentially interested in negotiating and exploring a chastity dynamic together - either online or in-person within Northern California, depending on your comfort and preferences. If you don't yet own a chastity belt but are interested in learning more about the kink, I'm always happy to answer questions (for instance: consent and safety, fitting, handling emergencies, and hygiene) and provide recommendations for great beginner chastity belts which start at around $30-40.
[ Kinks before anything else ] Bondage, Chastity, Orgasm Control (denial, edging, forced orgasms), Petplay, Toys, Teasing, Mind Games, Soft Degradation, Soft Humiliation, Soft Public Play (ex: revealing clothes and remote toys), Bratting / Brat Taming Dynamics
- I have more than a few years of experience keyholding primarily female chastity belts alongside a couple of years of real-life kink experience - so I would consider myself well-versed in keyholding etiquette particularly specific to female chastity belts including emergency keys, periodic hygiene unlocking, and the handling of extenuating circumstances. To show you read through this section, please message me your favorite fruit in your opening message!
- Please have basic kink education and maturity, or at least be interested in learning! Disclaimer that chastity is categorized towards edgeplay, so following RACK/PRICK it's also your responsibility to be informed about the risks of chastity along with your own circumstances and limits. I'm always happy to provide resources for getting into kink if you're new, and please prioritize communication and consent!
- My dominance style is primarily soft and teasing, ranging from completely platonic conversations about our days and our lives and everything in between, to teasing sessions reminding you that you're locked into chastity and unable to cum even if you wanted to without permission, to mindfuckery with a slight bit of gaslighting or gloating on your predicament, depending on your preferences.
- I'm also quite fond of assigning quite creative and frustrating rules and tasks to accompany the dynamic (example: unlock your chastity belt and read smut / watch porn while holding a vibrator directly over your clit, but forbidden from having it touch) with bonus points given for increasingly restrictive dynamics as you grant concession after concession in your desperation to cum!
- Bratting dynamics are especially welcome as long as you brat properly (aka more than just "make me" on loop)! You're encouraged to fight against your chastity belt, struggling and straining and vibrating - trying your damnest and hardest to cum without permission, only to realize you're completely stuck under my control~ Only caveat though: obviously I can't control your hygiene unlocks unless you're literally willing to stream the entire thing (which you're most likely not), so please be honest about that - trust is important in any kink dynamic!
- While verification pictures are always appreciated, they are never expected and never will be. I encourage any pictures sent to be properly watermarked to prevent their spreading on the internet (and this should be good practice anyway for any personal photos) - and I understand that anonymity and privacy, especially in relation to kink, is important to a lot of people. There's a reason why people use "scene names" in the kink scene.
Please feel free to message me with any questions whatsoever, even if you're not really interested in exploring with me! Always happy to answer as long as questions are, well... respectful.
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