About me: 5'6" ginger guy, bald with a chinstrap beard. 160 lbs. I like to say I'm not a short man, but a giant leprechaun because I tend to joke about almost everything. I'm 41 years old, but well preserved enough that people tend to be surprised when I get carded for such purchases as require it. I would describe myself as a loveable nerdy goofball in the streets and a mad scientist in the sheets. I am very faithful and not abusive; I have never struck a partner outside of a play session where that was an agreed upon factor no matter how angry I might be, nor have I ever cheated on someone. I can be demanding in pursuit of sexual gratification and amusement, but also very cuddly and affectionate.

I am ultimately looking for someone to be with physically, not a long distance relationship, but prepared to cast a wide net to find the right match. Willing to spend quite some time getting to know you online so that you can feel reasonably safe and cared for before any commitment or relocation occurs.

On to you. If this sounds anything like you, please reach out:

Physical characteristics: You are a rather short woman; assigned female at birth, 5'3" or shorter. You weigh less than 130 lbs. You can rock a short hair style. You have smaller than average breasts. You are 37 years old or younger.

Nonsexual Interests and lifestyle: You enjoy some of the nerdier things in life; Sci-fi/fantasy novels shows and movies, single-player and local multiplayer videogames, you don't have to be very into tabletop rpgs, but can at least enjoy the company of those who do enough to play them as an excuse to hang out. You are willing to relocate if necessary. Ideally, you have no children, or if you do they don't live with you and you don't feel the need to change that. You are not religious or superstitious.

Sexual /romantic interests: You enjoy or are at least interested in or willing to learn the following; restraints, edging, overstimulation, orgasm control/denial, toys, cock worship, deepthroating/facefucking, and receiving oral sex yourself. You are at least masochistic enough to enjoy nipple clamps and impact play, and have a fairly high sex drive. You might have something of an oral fixation, and if you are bored and can't think of something better to do, casually suckling on a dick might sound like a nice way to pass the time. Your primary love languages are physical touch and words of praise but you also might like being called a little whore while being mercilessly used for the pleasure your holes can give. You are willing to give high levels of sexual obedience to your forever dom, this may include servicing myself and/or others on command, potentially watersports but never scat, masturbating for the entertainment of myself and maybe others if instructed. In a relationship where you feel secure enough in a sufficient level of commitment, you might even engage in light body modification; getting specific piercings and/or tattoos at direction. Maybe you don't feel completely ready for all of these just things yet, but getting there has appeal.

There is of course some room for flexibility, I've not seen a successful relationship that didn't involve at least some compromise, and anything not specifically mentioned above is likely to be immaterial. For instance, while the physical characteristics section may seem rather stringent in some respects, things like skin, hair & eye color are completely irrelevant to me.

So. Are you out there?