Hey all! I’m looking to go on some dates with the aim of a longer-term poly relationship. Very much a fan of someone who’s simultaneously very sweet to me on dates, but also isn’t afraid to dominate and wreck me in the bedroom.

I’m a non binary grad student who’s very interested in how to design and make technology that can help connect people, especially on an emotional intimacy level. I like tech in a poetic way, much less in a functional way, which comes from my 7 years of working in the tech industry and becoming disillusioned with it. I’m a big fan of info dumping on things like dating apps, cozy games, and third culture kid issues. Very much a nerd.

Physically, I’m very petite at 5’0” and 105lbs, although I’m eventually aiming to get my strength training started again and gain back some muscle. I’m SE Asian with the brown skin to match. I dress both masc and femme, depending on my mood that day, and I do love dressing up for a date :) I’m very androgynous but for the folks who care about what’s in my pants, I have a pussy that really enjoys being filled.

I have a lot of experience with kink and my main loves surround just being used. I love restraints of all kinds, face fucking, free use, multiple forced orgasms, being posed for a dom, following instructions, overstimulation, and being shared. Love being displayed and shown off publically. Love a power dynamic where my dom is my mentor, even if I’m headstrong in my professional life. I’m a large masochist and love impact play, biting, scratching, and electro play—often pain alone can make me orgasm. Would love a collar eventually.

I’m a huge fan of people who: - know themselves, or at least have the confidence and stability that comes with being self assured - takes care of their partner emotionally as well as physically - are naturally affectionate and aren’t afraid to give or receive compliments - can hold a conversation, especially if it relates to one of our shared interests. Yes, that means via text on here, too. - have a physical size difference from me (not very hard 😅) - are sociable enough to want to meet my friends, and eventually my nesting partner/husband and boyfriend. Must also be poly - are kinky as a dom in some capacity. Big plus points if you’re involved and vetted by the local community, but not necessary. Kink experience isn’t a requirement but a very huge plus. Happy to swap fet profiles. - are passionate about something in their life and have bigger goals that they want to achieve

Thanks for reading this all the way through and I hope to hear from you soon 💖