About Me:

Hello I’m Wes, a nerdy 30 something y/o mountain-man with a penchant for ghost stories, erotic writing, video games, shipwrecks, cooking, stargazing, and getting my face sat on by cute girls in shiny outfits. I live in a former lumber town in Northern AZ and definitely look the part. Most days I could be mistaken for the “rustic” guy from every Hallmark Christmas movie who ends up stealing the girl away from her corporate lawyer fiancé… tall, fluffy hair, “rugged” beard, and way too many flannel shirts and leather loafers in the closet. At 6’5 with a deep voice and a full beard most assume I am a dom when out at munches and the like, though this couldn’t be further from the truth and I am actually a submissive at heart (and a pretty kinky/depraved one at that). 

Who I’m Looking For:

While being typecast as a daddy-dom can be a bit annoying it has led to a rather kinky fantasy which I am seeking to explore. I have always loved taboo or unusual power dynamics in kink and would like to find a young(er) domme to “flip the script” on the whole daddy-dom dynamic.

I am specifically looking for someone 18-25 who is confident in their sexuality and  likes to use their body to tease and torment shy guys like me, basically  a “temptress” type with a bit of a corrupter/denigrator mixed in.  Height, race, etc. don’t really matter but some level of sexual attraction is obviously required (though I find confidence is far more important than pure looks in that regard). 

My Ideal Dynamic:

 My ideal dynamic is basically a very kinky FWB, someone who I can be just as comfortable around while chatting in a coffee shop as I am kneeling at your feet. I am mostly looking for an online dynamic as my life is pretty busy right now and while it can be fun to fantasize about spending all my time worshiping at your feet (or chained to a wall  in your basement, both are fun) the 24/7 lifestyle isn’t really feasible for me and I am looking for something more casual,  though I am not at all opposed to setting up some kind of “kinky sleepover” where we would meet up and do the whole 24/7 thing for a long weekend or so once we get to know each other.

Despite looking for an online dynamic, I tend to find the usual JOI sessions rather boring and would like to explore more long term “lifestyle”  dynamics like training and behavioral modification. Basically I am looking to be locked up in chastity and have my frustration and horniness used to train and corrupt my mind and body to be more submissive and malleable to your control, with an emphasis on teaching me to let go of silly things like pride and dignity and become the depraved and degenerate sub we both know deep down I want to be. 

Kinks and Limits:

If the title didn't give it away, chastity and T&D are pretty much my main kinks, though like I mentioned above I am a degenerate at heart and am open to exploring most fetishes/kinks (with scat, ball busting, vomit, and findom being the notable exceptions). I do have a soft spot for the classics like latex, leather, whips, chains, leashes, gags, pegging, butt-plugs, etc. and also a bit of a dark side, with some more unusual interests/fantasies including;

• Abduction play
• Latex Encasement (i.e. vac beds, gimp hoods, etc)
• Breath Play (specifically with a mask, I am not a fan of choking)
• Exhibitionism/public play (especially around having my chastity locked status exposed)
• Free Use and Sharing (i.e. being “loaned” to other dominants for a day as a service sub or being used as a urinal or “stress relief” at a party)
• Pony/puppy play (especially outdoors)
• Dehumanization, Denigration, and a whole lot more.  

Lastly, I should mention though that regardless of how extreme some of my fantasies can get, I don’t enjoy outright cruelty, and very much prefer a more supportive and affectionate dynamic, one where you help me to overcome my fears and anxieties around submission as we explore our darkest fantasies together.