• I am an experienced Dominant, seeking a submissive partner. I'm kinky, adventurous, intelligent, thoughtful, and deviant. I'm happily married and I have zero intention of ever changing that. I also believe that lust and love are two different things. That some sexual desires/needs you're just... born with, and some are created. A mixture of nurture AND nature. If you're someone like me? Those desires and needs are things that don't mesh well with a romantic relationship. Or maybe it's just me. Either way, that's the situation I'm in and I'm looking for a partner who's comfortable slotting into that role in my life. I would prefer something long-term and lasting

• As far as BDSM goes, if you're under the impression it's all "40 shades of grey", Rhianna songs, leather, and people pretending to be daddies and little girls, then you are looking for something different that what D/s is to me. If you recognize that those are just specific areas of BDSM that some are drawn to, then that's perfect. However, personally, I am not drawn towards age-play, heavy pain play, or roleplaying. I want a real interaction with a real person that has a real D/s dynamic and flow to it. I don't do scenes, I'm not a rigger, none of this is "playi to me

Someone I can be honest and open with, and can offer the same to. I have a very high paced and stressful job. I have an excellent career. I am driven, motivated, and intelligent. I own a home, a car, no kids, I'm doing quite well for myself. Come be the missing piece

• And if you aren't the missing piece, but this post made you curious, feel free to reach out. Happy to have some conversations and abate any curiosity

• And if you don't match what I'm looking for, no need to be offended. I'm not just looking for anyone, I'm looking for a specific fit for my situation. It's not personal. Text me with your age favorite color, relationship statuts and picture to know you read it all