Whilst I have posted in the last few weeks, I am still optimistic of connecting meaningfully with someone from this intriguing corner of the internet. So I’ve sat and revised, as wants and interests evolve.

For as long as I can remember, thoughts on control, bondage, and helplessness have arisen and excited. In fact I’m pretty sure my first foray into restraints was with a wound-up handkerchief in the playground at primary school when I was six. Seems this world chose me, and I’m wholeheartedly enjoying it.

Equally seems safe to say the connection to having complete control, leading an outsized power dynamic, and establishing true helplessness isn't going to diminish. And, with my connection to control as strong as ever, I’ve seen my wants and interests evolve.

I’m most interested in TPE, bondage, orgasm denial/chastity, bathroom control, sleep control, diet control, blackmail, location-tracking, ownership, sadism, degradation, humiliation, abandonment play, an extensive and incredibly strict dynamic, kidnapping, abduction, CNC, possessiveness, behaviour modification and some other more advanced mechanisms of control.

Limits: Anything underage, scat, animals, incest.

So, what is it— from this intriguing corner of the internet — am I looking for? That would be a submissive (female only, sorry) who is interested in exploring this incredibly strict and dark D/s dynamic.

I want her to wake up soaked, so deeply turned on by the thoughts of what’s about to happen to her in her days. Wet at the thought of ’what will I do with her?’, ‘How will I bend her will to exactly what I want?’

And yet, as night falls, she knows there is always such deep unequivocal, unshakeable adoration and care for her — absolute, incomparable affection, appreciation of her — for all of the power she has ceded and handed over.

There are 3-4 different ways in which true helplessness could be realised. And I am more than happy to open-up about them in a chat; but I will withhold them from here. However, who's on the other side of this potent power exchange? Well, please read on.

I'm a 34M (6'1 / 185cm) who lives in Australia, and by all intents and purposes is a young, bright and positive type that you'd see at work, at a bar, even within a volunteering group. I love to read, listen to podcasts, audiobooks, understand the world and its direction, play football and workout regularly. I have blue eyes, short hair, a lean yet athletic build, and undying love for breakfast! But that is enough for now!

Travelling and digital work means in-person is ultimately possible too, if things progress to that.

I'd love to hear from you if the above caught your eye, and got you thinking.

Best and darkest, Hugo