Hello! if you see this post it means I am still looking

I hope this post finds you well and you are having a great week so far!

I am a mature, experienced kinky man - on the Dominant side, who would love to find a submissive woman to Connect with.

Let me begin by stating that I want to establish a relationship rather than have a one-time conversation. ideally creating a connection, a friendship, respecting boundaries, establishing trust, and lots of fun banter.

More about me

• Attractive, Cute face, brown eyes, fit, 5’10, light brown skin tone

• straight, hypersexual and laid back

• Animal lover and Speaks 3 languages

• Hobbies: Gym, Cultural films, Cooking, Tinkering with my motorbike, Hiking, or taking serene walks along the pier, the odd Animated series, Surfing, Music.

• • Nature: Dominance is innate to me, whether in professional settings or more intimate dynamics. I don’t rely on barking orders but instead project a confident, composed presence that naturally compels others to follow and give their best for me. It’s about strength and clarity, not force, and it creates an environment where those around me are inspired to excel. While I carry this commanding energy, I’m also a creative, artsy, and slightly nerdy soul, with a playful side that balances the intensity of my nature.

BDSM Experience: As a dominant, I take immense satisfaction in the deep mental and physical connection that BDSM facilitates. Over the years, I've become well-versed in CNC dynamics, and the complexity of power exchange continues to captivate me. The mental aspect is especially important—uncovering the layers of my submissive, understanding her desires, her fears, and what drives her. That’s where the real depth lies for me.

With experience, I’ve come to appreciate the delicate balance of asserting dominance and knowing when to allow space for growth. I don’t expect perfection, but I do demand effort and attentiveness. The daily grind and responsibilities matter, and I’ll encourage you to stay disciplined, rewarding your obedience with recognition and praise. I see my role as a steady force in your life, guiding and shaping you through both the mundane and the extraordinary.

Though I’m not a "soft" dominant, aftercare is something I take very seriously. I believe in giving praise where it’s due—those small affirmations and words of recognition are my way of showing appreciation for your obedience and effort. At the same time, I won’t hesitate to take a firm hand when necessary, especially when disobedience or a lack of respect is present. My approach is always rooted in maintaining trust, respect, and the balance of power.

Kinky Preferences [ happy to go over them in private]

• breast fetish

• Pet play

• Impact (spanking [not the face])

• Bondage (shibarashi)

• dirty talk, mild degradation, with praise

• oral fixation

• mutual masturbation, toys

• CNC

• Dd/Mg

• Primal

• Orgasm control and command.... lots of other things.

Take away • I am not looking for a quick fap session

• Prefer someone from India or Asia (but have had long time difference dynamics before)

• Intellectual and not a one word dominant

• Unexperienced female subs are welcomed

I know it's a long read, so take your time and if I have caught your interest, no need to hesitate. I rarely bite at the start.

J