I'm a 43 year old sapiosexual Dom which means I find intelligence sexy in a partner. I'm looking for more than just a random one time session, and for this reason, building a connection and being able to chat outside of the scene about non sexual topics are essential to me. I will be honest with you and I expect the same in return. I find practicing BDSM as an escape from daily life to unwind my brain. I also enjoy being like a mentor/caregiver toward my sub. someone she'd think of when she needs to talk to somebody, kind of like a confidante or an advisor. I am single but I don't mind if you are already in a relationship, as long as your partner is aware of what you do in here and approves it (No, I don't want them being involved at all, just them being informed works for me).

I have a job and life like you do, so I understand that neither of us can be available all the time in here or any other platforms that we decide on to continue this, but I don't think daily check ins or short messages take that much time from either side and it shows the importance of this relationship to us.

The sub I am looking for supposed to be: female (preferably bi), between 25 to 55, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, obedient but active in bedroom, cares about her health (that doesn't mean being athletic or fit, it's just about attitude and how much she cares about herself), has a strong personality in her daily life but submission is her choice when she seeks sexual pleasure, speaks her mind and enjoys long chats.

Having cuckquean/hot-husband fantasy (without the degrading aspect of it) is a bonus.

Ok, now a bit more elaboration kink-wise ;)

My Kinks: nipple and breast play and mild torturing, degrading/humiliating verbally, orgasm control (not into denial), soft impact play

My Limits: blood, scat, anything illegal, CNC, TPE, DD/lg, ageplay, raceplay, breeding, giving bruises or permanent marks.

Not a big fan of : anal play (but it's negotiable), big tattoos, piercings in places other than ears or belly button, fake boobs (breast cancer survivors excluded)

If you are looking for the same and feel that our kinks align, hit me up and we can discuss further through chat and learn more about each other.