I have had multiple dom/sub relationships over the past 10 years or so, ranging from online to live in relationships. Have not had a submissive for the past 2 years as I have been in a standard relationship (non dom/sub). That has since ended and I would be lying if I said I was not looking forward to getting back into a relationship to flex my dominant side to greater extents than my previous relationship was interested in.

About me: By all outward appearances I am a typical young American guy. Went to law school, and now do the grind as an attorney (I am happy to draft you up a contract if that's something you would like haha). Come from a middle class family, easy going, very sociable. I like to have a good time and try to laugh and make others laugh as much as possible. Compassion, kindness, honesty, are qualities I hold in high importance; both from those I surround myself with and myself. Have a great family and friend group. This side of my life is entirely discreet, no one in my circle would ever believe my behind closed doors interests. Discretion is important. I can promise you discretion, and in return will expect it from you. I am 6'1, 185, athletic build. Just by way of being objective, I am above average attractiveness. I enjoy going to the gym, playing sports, traveling, movies, TV shows, music, reading, and animals.

What I am looking for: Looking for a submissive interested in an actual relationship, not just a side/casual interest. Online is of course fine to start, but if it developed I would want some form of relocation (time frame for that flexible and will take time as trust needs to be developed first and I realize you are a real person with a real life and just can't up and move on a whim). But, if everything went well, she would be held out (and treated just as well) as my girlfriend/partner in everyday life just as a typical relationship; our dom/sub relationship known only between us. My ideal submissive would be 18 to 27. However, this is not a firm requirement as a good connection is a good connection and age truly is just a number (except no minors obviously). And this is not a slight on thicker girls (you are lovely as well), but my interest in both my personal life activities and bedroom activities are geared more towards fit/limber/physically active women. I would prefer an experienced submissive, but am open to training if you are truly committed and not just dipping your toes in the water to see if you enjoy the life style. I need someone (either experienced or new) who knows being a submissive is something they can not only handle, but enjoy. Your enjoyment is as important as mine. I am very fair/objective and will respect you as a person with a real life. As far as your submissive role, I will respect your boundaries as well, while encouraing you to expand them in a way you are comfortable with but progressing. Effort to better yourself in your role is just as important as outright obedience. You will have daily chores, orders, restrictions. These will include but are not limited to food, clothes, workouts, pictures, videos, posing practice, etc. Punishments will be discussed and determined between us. I am fair, but strict and particular.

About you: I am very open. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. I certainly have preferences, but sometimes you don't always get what you want, you get what you need. My one requirement is as stated above: fit to average body build. Ideally you would be employed and driven. You are independent in your everyday life, but of course submissve in ours.

Kinks we ideally will share (open to others): -wardrobe control -exercise control -orgasm control -breathplay -hairpulling -spitting -slapping -restraints -suspension -edging -gagging/deepthroating -squirting -temperature play (ice, heat) -praise -humilation/degrading -Anal -potential breeding -ownership -CNC -freeuse

If you think we would hit it off please send me a message with a photo (preferably showing my user name on a card or something as proof of being real) and what you are looking for more specifically.

Good luck everyone, and stay safe