Hello everyone! I'm Vera. I'm a transwoman who has unfortunately not been able to start HRT or even have a vast majority of my closet catch up with where I'm at emotionally. So if that's a deal breaker for you, I understand.

Second possible dealbreaker: I'm polyamorous. So please understand I'm not looking for something monogamous and totally expect you to have other people you talk with and have things with. If you choose not to, I respect that decision. I have 2 partners right now but I'm looking for a third.

Total Power Exchange has been something that I have been interested in for a long time, but I haven't ever built it with someone before. I would like to do so now. I understand this takes time and trust and do not expect this to happen instantly. After all, I'm demisexual so it's going to take time for me to be comfortable doing more than flirting.

I don't really like pictures much myself and so I also don't expect them from you. In fact, audios tend to turn me on more than anything.

I want to be clear on this: if you want to build this sort of dynamic, your pleasure would mostly be at my whim. This dynamic is you giving yourself completely to me to use as I see fit.

That being said, I like giving people pleasure, especially subs. So don't feel like you won't get anything out of it.

The kinks I require for this dynamic: dom/sub, clothing control, orgasm control, phone sex

Kinks I woul like to have but aren't required: anal, facials, lingerie, pet play, mistress/slave, cucking potentially, sharing, swinging,

My limits: blood, cbt, bathroom play, permanent damage,

Lastly, while I am pan and open to everyone regardless of gender, I tend to be more interested in Sapphic sort of relationships. So please be patient if you're masculine and it takes me a while to know if I'm interested in you.

If you've read this far, tell me your favorite book, your darkest desire, and your favorite color!