I am looking to start a long-term dynamic with a sub/brat. I understand that submission is a gift that requires a lot of trust, which I’m willing to earn that trust and won’t start acting in the dynamic until you’re ok with it. Ultimately, I hope to form a LTR dynamic and relationship as I don’t have much interest in hook ups. While I’m perfectly ok starting off online until we have gotten to know each other and feel comfortable, I’m not looking to have a 100% online dynamic. Also I’m not interested in poly relationships, so if you already have a significant other then I’m afraid I’m not what you’re looking for

A few cliff notes about me:

Have been into BDSM for about 8 years as a Dom and have experience with impact play, bondage, sensory deprivation play, orgasm control/edging, breath play, and a little CNC

Vanilla interests include reading, board games and video games (I’ll admit now to being a nerd). I also enjoy getting outside and enjoy camping, hiking, swimming and SCUBA diving. I also brew my own beer and wine

Never married and no kids (but I have a dog)

If I’ve caught your interest, I hope to hear from you soon, and if not, I wish you the best in your search.