Married Dom here with several years of experience in online D/s relationships. First and foremost I’m looking for someone who wants to take this seriously and really invest and build the connection. That is such an important foundation to then build all of the kink and other stuff on. My goal in all of this is to learn about you and together develop a dynamic to bring the best out in you as well.
Please be a good communicator as I don’t want to feel like I’m carrying the conversations. Good communication is key in these relationships so I want someone who is able to communicate often and openly.
Within the dynamic, I am always very focused on the day to day control extending outside of just the bedroom and into things like clothing/underwear control, workout times, schedule, etc with rules and tasks and kink intermingled in all of them. My goal is to learn everything I can about you including what makes you tick sexually and use all of that to make the dynamic as pleasurable as possible for you and me both.
Some of my other kinks include exhibitionism/semi-public/sneaky play, bondage, impact play, anal, spanking, and orgasm control. I have many others I haven’t listed, and not matching on all kinks is definitely not a dealbreaker.
Now to the physical part don't have many expectations in terms of who you should be, although I have always been attracted to women who are fit or are at least pursuing fitness lifestyle as I find sharing this passion really helps. As for me, I am tall with facial hair and enjoy working out and keeping myself in good shape. I am happy to verify myself early on in the conversation and will expect the same from you.
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