Hello! I appreciate you taking the time to read my post. I value said time, so I've organized this into the most likely deal breakers upfront, some general information about me, and then what I'm looking for and what I'm not. So let's get to it!

Likely deal breakers

Politically I'm most in line with folks like AOC and Bernie Sanders. Spiritually I'm closest to an Agnostic-Atheist. Romantically I'm ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, and happily married for over 7 years. Sexually I'm slightly on the heteroflexible side of things but it's mostly situational. I'm non-binary and "classically" male presenting, though somewhat unclear about my own gender identity; I wish I'd been born female, but I don't strongly gravitate to either male or female and so I've just accepted what is. I live in Kitsap County, which is closest to Seattle (East of me) as the crow flies or Tacoma (South of me) as the car drives. I have no set age preference, but shared life experiences is ideal so "millennial aged" is probably sufficient. I'm not opposed to recreational drug use, but I no longer do so myself. I'm free of all sexually communicable diseases and I'd love to stay that way, so I'll ask that we share clean tests for peace of mind. And lastly for those with allergies/aversions, I have two adorable cats (American Shorthairs, aka Standard Issue Cats) and one equally adorable dog (Pomeranian).

Generally about me

I'm a huge nerd all around. I love learning, I'm a big fan of all the sciences both realized and (presently) fictional, and I profoundly enjoy things like etymology. In regards to leisure activities, I'm very into video and board games, curling up with a good (or wonderfully awful) movie or two, binging a TV series, or just generally listening to music. I also enjoy reading, camping, hiking, and trying my hand at crafts like carving. For work, I have a seasoned career in software development and I both love and hate it. I'm at least able to work full time from home though, so I'm certainly thankful for that.

What I'm looking for

First and foremost, I'm looking for a partner and best friend to fall truly and deeply in love with, and who's both willing and able to put in the mutual hard work that requires. Someone with whom to challenge each other, support each other, build and lift each other up, and cheer each other on towards being our best selves. Secondly, I'm looking for a partner who knows what she wants for herself and from me, and who enjoys straddling the line between the gentler side of dominance and the playfully cruel and humiliating side. Lastly, but not a hard requirement, someone who also enjoys gaming or is sufficiently nerdy would be a bonus.

I best express my love, gratitude, and appreciation for my partner through acts of service, and naturally gravitate towards support roles. I feel most fulfilled focusing on my partner's domestic, physical, and emotional needs. When it comes to being of service to my partner, I greatly appreciate instruction and guidance; tell me how I can best fulfill your needs, and show me if needed. How I feel most loved and appreciated in return is through receiving praise, encouragement, and physical touch. Being held, snuggling, having my head pet while I lay in your lap, and hearing how I'm your good boy or good girl and that I make you proud fill me up.

On the sexual side, I'm an experimentalist to my core and I relish finding new and inventive ways of both giving and receiving pleasure. I consider myself lucky to have had such a wide range of experiences thus far in life, and those both serve to open my mind to an even wider range of ideas, and empowers me with firm knowledge of my likes and dislikes. In particular, I enjoy the pleasures of the mind the most: "sexting", sharing stories, talking about fantasies, roleplaying fantastical scenarios, and sharing all manner of dirty media with each other. I'm terribly attracted to women who are kind to me emotionally and physically, and mean to me playfully and sexually. As alluded to earlier, I desire the gentle FemDom type (edging on Mommy Dom) who equally enjoys bouts of humiliation and light cruelty. I quite fancy edging, denial, chastity, pleasuring myself on command for your enjoyment, and a smattering of taboos. I'm also 100% into cuckolding and many of the surrounding kinks. In regards to limits, it depends. In real life, the obvious illegal ones apply, as does scat, abandonment, non-consensual abuse, anything feet related, and sissification. In fantasy only settings like text, I have none.

And that about does it! I'm eager to hear from you if you think we'd match. Thank you for your time.